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2016-02-29 15:47:21 Post No. 16861149
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Hey so I'm from merica, live in Germany and have a German gf. I really love her and love spending time with her. We are studying the same thing at the same university.
We're going through a bit of a rough patch. I have broken up with her like 3 times out of fear of the future.
I am worried about her getting fat because she doesnt really prioritize healthy eating and exercise and is already a bit chubby.
I am worried about her cheating on me because of something that happened 2 months or so into our relationship. She had a sleepover with some of her girlfriends and a guy and they were all drunk (she said she wasnt). Apparently her two girlfriends got in one bed together and she had to sleep with the guy. She said they cuddled because she was cold and when she first told the story said nothing sexual happened. Recently during our rough patch she told me something sexual did indeed happen, but she didn't initiate it. Apparently he put her hand on his penis and she left it there for like a minute (said she was tired or didn't know what to do) and she also told me she has trouble saying no.
Now I want to give her the benefit of the doubt and respect her for telling me all of that, but I still feel like something more could have happened and I told her I would forgive her if anything else did in fact happen, but she said that was it and it won't happen again.
I know it's hard as an outsider to analyze a relationship like this. I love her and really enjoy spending time with her, but I just don't know if it's worth my time and emotions. Should I keep trying or just give it up and try to move on?