You guys are doing a wonderful job helping others, keep up the good work. Kindly help me out this time. I am 24 yrs old , soon to be 25. Ever since I turned 24 , I have noticed tremendous increase in my sexual thoughts. I just feel like doing it. I can say that they have sky-rocketed and am finding it hard to concentrate on day-to-day activities. Like fantasies about aunties etc etc. I don't know if this normal or not. I very well remember I was not like this earlier. Since I am the only male in my family , i can't talk to anyone about this.
When I see beautiful girls on streets or market I get these thoughts. My mother knows I watch it and she didn't object to it. According to her everybody watches it and it is normal. But am single and question arises if porn would be disastrous in future , like for marriage life. I am so confused with it because some articles on internet say its a good thing to watch and it won't affect your relationship with your future spouse. while some say it does. Please guide me. I am surprised to see small increase in my penis size and now pubes have originated at unexpected spots on penis which kind of worries me. Is this a normal thing at this age? do they(thoughts) increase with age?? I mean sexual thoughts were there during my teenage years too but they were not this strong...
Have you checked with your doc? The increase in pubic hair and dick size isn't common at that age. Maybe you have too high testosteron levels. That might explain the high libido too. Have you changed something? Picked up a sport? Changed diet?
Also, i'm one of those people that don't see anything wrong with porn. A lot of people do. Do you masturbatr? If so, stick to that and your fantasies. That way you will never get in trouble with any future spouse. Some girls get jealous if their men watch porn. A lot don't, but if you can do without porn, you are on the safe side.
May i ask where you are from? Cause it's incredibly unbelievable that you are a single, young male and don't watch porn.
>living with mother
>doesn't watch porn
>doesn't masturbate much I guess
>increase in PENIS SIZE? at fucking 25?
the increase is pretty strange, at your age. get checked by a doc.
otoh, the high libido is normal, and your life sounds pretty stifling, would it be economically feasible for you to live alone as a bachelor?
>Have you checked with your doc?
>May i ask where you are from?
>get checked by a doc.
Thanking you for all the valuable advices. Does anyone have more advices for me,
My friends as it is called have "scored" many girls.They had sex with school going,married and nearly every girl they date.I don't regret to not to have many girl friends but these days its a kind of fashion.Having attitude of approaching someone with the intent of having only physical relations and then to move on isn't considered bad and more correctly its considered as being open minded and fun loving(even by girls).I don't even like to check out girls at public places and always wanted to be a one woman man.My conscience doesn't allow.I feel irritated when people tell about how and when they had sex.
I have been hit on by girls more than once.
I got involved with a girl and she was deeply in love with me.She dumped me abruptly. She then populated that we were just friends and spread rumors that I proposed, she denied and I got frustrated after that.She vanished after SPREADING CRAP.
So here I am with an image that I am not.My commitment is sickness, not having affairs is impotency, not flirting is lacking a skill.Not checking out girls is a sort of homosexuality.I am not a good guy as I had hidden intentions for my best friend (ex gf). I am a sad inert impractical person in total & the guys who had multiple affairs are happy with their arranged marriage wali happy wife and a long list of ex and present girlfriends.
This all has taken my belief to be of good character & I have LOST TRUST in girls;due to my ex and girls who easily fall on BED with my friends(All belong to good families).My friends also tell me that they never say 'I LOVE YOU' to any of the bedtime partner except their wife.
My for once use only I LOVE YOU has been used and eventually got in TRASH.I find that I don't fit in present social condition.
I guess You can understand my confused and frustrated mental approach as I have described my condition in such a mixed and confusing way.I dont even know what to ask from You.