Been dating gf for around 5 years was alot more sexual at the

Well, do you do your part? Are you still attracted to her? Do you still feel the urge to fuck her?

It IS possible. My sister is married since 5 years, they have a toddler and a baby. Sex isn't that often due to circumstances, but they make time to have sex. They put in effort to still be attractive for each other and as she tells me, her husband is still randomly groping her and ready to jump into bed with her at every opportunity.

And this DESPITE the fact that she recently shocked me that she still hasn't done anal with him.. They have normal vanilla PiV-sex.

It is normal dude. Last relationship I was in went from 5 times a week to twice a week over the course of a year.

>>16860642
It's normal, but you can always spice things up a little.

>>16860734
Confirmed. Once the new relationship excitement wears off sex falls to a level where women put out to maintain the intimacy in the relationship and rarely from physical need, except when they're ovulating, which is one week a month. The other three weeks most of them are happy to go without.