Been dating gf for around 5 years
was alot more sexual at the start
now those times have dried up and vanished into memory
she says it is normal for couples to be like this
she is also actually sitting behind me in bed right now. i am trying to show her it aint.
I allways try to do stuff, and i know i am attractive enough to woo girls. tell me there is something to fix here
>inb4 OP is a controlling faggot
Well, do you do your part? Are you still attracted to her? Do you still feel the urge to fuck her?
It IS possible. My sister is married since 5 years, they have a toddler and a baby. Sex isn't that often due to circumstances, but they make time to have sex. They put in effort to still be attractive for each other and as she tells me, her husband is still randomly groping her and ready to jump into bed with her at every opportunity.
Confirmed. Once the new relationship excitement wears off sex falls to a level where women put out to maintain the intimacy in the relationship and rarely from physical need, except when they're ovulating, which is one week a month. The other three weeks most of them are happy to go without.