Leaving the number itself is D) none of the above. However it's rude if you've been making her uncomfortable the whole time while getting no clear sign of her interest in return. It's creepy if she in fact gave you a clear sign of being UN-interested but you left your number anyway. It's odd if you didn't say or do anything flirtatious but thought she should somehow still consider calling you anyway.
>>16858417 >>16858424 I didn't do anything out of the ordinary, I just did the typical ordering, smiling, thank you, etc. Left a somewhat larger tip than usual. So that's why I'm somewhat second guessing myself. The note was just
"coffee sometime? xxx-xxx-xxxx -anon"
I'm new to the area and even if it wasn't romantically, I kind of just wanted to get to know her. But I wish I had ordered a beer just to get ID'd so she would have seen that.
>>16858434 >You're paying them for their attention
See and I kind of regret it because of this. Regardless of whether or not she acted interested, uninterested, etc., she's just doing her job. And I know that getting hit on while you're doing your job really annoys some people. Honestly even if she just cracked a smile and threw it away I would still be happy. I like to give people confidence.
It's quite true that attractive guys can get away with the same thing ugly ones would get called creeps for.
In fact, often times "alpha male" behavior that gets all the girls is borderline creepy, just depends on the girl and how attractive you think they are, if you're fucking Channing Tatum, any girl would faint if you did that, if you're a fatass neckbeard with acne who looks like he lives in his moms basement and wears fedoras, yeah she'll probably be like ewww creepppp, and throw it in the trash can asap
Worth a shot though, who cares, if she doesn't want to text you the a he won't and you'll just never see or hear from her again, unless you go there often or something, that might be kinda awkward
Eh, it's creepy if she's not interested, but if you're attractive it's a dream come true for some women.
If you're white, do it at a sushi or japanese restaurant. japs love white guys.
Even when I go out to Sushi with my gf, all the young waitresses flirt with me and stare at me in groups as I eat. It's extremely tempting.
One time while walking to the restroom, I passed by one and she purposely tried to block me and giggled, said sorry playfully, and stood there waiting for me to react. I almost reciprocated, but felt guilty.
>>16858610 The exact same standards apply. Hit on the guy first and see how he reacts. If he responds positively then sure, leave your number. Otherwise take a hint. But you have to be willing to make the first move and test the waters.
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