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I married in January 2015. Im a very introverted homely kinda guy... and since I never had any female friends... a marriage was arranged for me.
The girl seemed alright and I had no preferences... just hoped that she would be similar to me. Intelligent, disciplined and cared more about studies/career etc.
However, the girl has become a different person in these 7-8 months. I got details/stories (I was not being detective) from some female friends etc. that she had 3-4 boyfriends. She was clubbing/pool partying since 11th class.
Im not being a chauvinist pig... and I know that feminists will beat me up (because according to them feminism is that women are always right).
But I didnt have that kind of personality. I dont gel with her. When I see 11-12 year olds these days riding on scooties and kissing in public... it just sends shivers down my spine. I am a very regular kind of homely guy.
I cannot even imagine drinking alcohol and partying at 3 am then going to his friends PG and having sex. Maybe im not mature enough or advanced enough to understand that.
Help. I cannot discuss it with her as shes very hyper. And her elder sister is always angry.