Tell me your problems.
I am back with some free time so if there's anything I can help you with feel free to reply.
A little bit about me:
>full time teacher (not a school teacher; working at an institution with extra classes for children 6-10 years old)
>socially active person
>passionate about foreign languages
I've got all my ducks in a row relatively speaking. I've got a house of my own, a job that pays well, and the world at my fingertips.
The problem I'm having is I feel entirely disconnected from the people around me. I enjoy the company of good friends and family. I have nothing to bond with them over. I don't have any hobbies worth talking about nor do I have interest in things others take interest in. It's starting to wear me down being the odd man out and makes me feel entirely undatable.
What do you see as the best solution to this issue?
Make up your mind about who you want to befriend/have a relationship with. Let's call first grill Anna and the second one Julie.
So if Anna wants a relationship, being real friends is out of discussion. You either hook up or friendzone her and keep your distance.
If you hook up with Julie, Anna is gonna be affected no matter the circumstances but it is up to you.
I know how you feel. I suggest you find a hobby that is preferably common with your social circle, something that would build up a stronger connection between you and your friends.
Also try to find something that doesnt require a lot of your time. Things like movies, literature, hiking etc. Not like an instrument or a team sport.
Give up on her. You shouldnt have interfered from the beginning. Nothing ever comes out well if you are the one she is cheating with. Also she obviously is crazy since she contradicts herself, is a compulsive liar for planning a future while waiting to end her past.
Definetly 1000 red flags there. No way in hell should you bone her again.
>studying for exams in may will graduate almost certainly with a 2:2 (probably like having a 2.5-3.0 GPA in the USA in foreign languages (German and Italian) from a top 5 UK university
>very little work experience
>I've basically cucked myself out of any hope for a decent career ever
>i inherited £35000 that im gonna blow travelling the world after my exams and then im going to blow my brains out
is there any way to escape this hell
Most of the complaints on here are from betas that can't get girl, you'd solve way more problems by humping some of them instead of giving shitty advice.
Just be yourself gurl (a whore)
I can't get over my problems with women and sex. even if i managed to lose virginity with a whore, i'm too afraid of my penis size and to not get an erection.
i don't know if its so hard for me to interact with women beyond casual conversation for this, or its actually the reverse.
I guess i need to see a specialist
Yes. Do your best to find a good job. I can suggest you get a master's degree in diplomacy and apply to take the exams that you country requires (at least that is what i am doing).
Work on becoming fit, enhance any attractive features that you have.
Become more friendly, open and straight forward. That should get you more friends.
If I were you I would invest the money in something that could potentially help you change your life.
You could use a specialist advice. Also, communicating not so casual things with women might help as well.
Well, I am off to my date so I'll be checking the thread in a few hours.