>>16856784 Good communication Open minded Logical thinker Compassionate and affectionate Strong willed/bold Knows when to stop putting on makeup Doesn't have an obsession with heels .. I can't think of more right now.. tired.. Oh wait..
>>16856841 Do you think I'm fat? Do you think she's pretty? Stuff like that. Idk why y'all do it it's annoying as hell and only pushes us away. Most things that women do like that are self destructive.
>be attractive to the guy pretty simple >actually want the guy/find him attractive as well/be interested if youre seeing someone and the interest is one way or not strong for one of you, one of you seems to do all the initiating while the other "receives"(text messages, lets hang out, dates,etc), it sucks, obviously this is based on the people, dont try to force yourself to like someone. assuming you both like each other a lot and want things to work.... >self awareness do you do certain things that are kinda dumb or hypocritical? dont. think a man should provide for a woman but get mad when the guy thinks the girl should be a house wife? be consistent in your logic. obviously its just an example but dont be dumb with your perceptions/reactions >mind games try not to play them, there is never too much communication in a relationship, dont try to make him jealous talking to another guy, that shows that you dont really care for him and are easily pulled away, its heartbreaking, you coming back and explaining "i did it because i wanted you to care, to fight for me!" might make sense to you, but the guy is thinking im with her shes mine and now shes hurting me. >be intimate talk about serious things, your dreams, sex, each other, get close
then just think about certain attributes, funny or not funny? funny. kind or not kind? kind. fun or boring? fun.
But the PERFECT girlfriend... would be smoking hot, yet cute, intelligent but not autistic or pedantic, easygoing but passionate and energetic, but not annoyingly so. Good fashion sense. Most importantly, taste that agrees with mine on the fundamental things. Her views can't be ones I strongly disagree with either.
She has to care about me on a personal level. Not just things like how assertive I am or how nice I am but the every day reactions I have. That level of personal connection. Like a sibling you like. She also has to be smart enough that she can keep up with me and be able to discuss and engage in my work if it bothers me. Like having me explain a problem. Just the explaining part helps a lot to solve a lot of these things but if you don't understand you won't ask the questions where you should be unclear about the explanation. She should also be interested in having intelligent conversations. Doesn't have to be any point to it, you can discuss completely arbitrary things to no real end, like what would an ethical eugenics focused society be like? Should also be able to not be bigoted about discussing things like that. Understanding that your partner always has good intentions or are just thinking about things for the heck of it is something I find rare. She should be perfectly fine with letting me/her be a stay at home dad/mom when we have kids if we think that's the best solution to raise them well. They come first simply. (1/2)
>>16857105 She should also be able to express when I'm being stubborn, point out what my flaws are and all of that. But attempt (just attempt, doesn't have to succeed I just need to understand her intention) to tell me in a way that makes me feel she's just concerned. She should also be warm and loving towards everyone. She doesn't hold grudges towards people. She understands that I may have insecurities about her cheating (because she's so damn perfect who wouldn't fear that?) and tries to reassure me that nothing is happening when she sees situations where I might suspect. She also points out how I shouldn't have to be jealous because she loves me, also pointing out my jealousy as a problem.
I could go on. But the point in all this is that I won't find someone perfect, theses are some of the qualities I can put far above looks, social status, wealth, general kindness and sex. It's what I think would make for a very nice, smooth and peaceful relationship.
And it doesn't matter if she's not always like this obviously. She can be grumpy or straight up mean at times but this is just the normal state. Think I might prefer that even because it adds color/spice to have someone act different on occasion. Also makeup sex is great. (2/2)
And I'm of course not sure what's the best girl for me. Technically that's the perfect girl, but this is what I'd like to look for. Shame almost all of these qualities require so much time to see.
She literally just has to be good looking and fun so I fall for her.
If I like a Girl I like for her goods and her flaws. Just have common sense. No drugs, no stds, no cheating, give me a blowjob, play with my balls, make me a sandwich once in a while and that's literally it.
>>16857115 >autistic No. Got tested. (I know this doesn't sound good obviously, but it was for unrelated reasons)
And how helpful is a 'I like good looks and fun'? It doesn't say anything of use? What was asked for was perfect. Maybe OP hopes to improve towards that end. So I showed what I think is most important. Out of self interest and out of empathy for what I think I the best. I've even motivated why I think these things.
What you're saying is' I could settle for most people'. Yeah she knows that among the 3billion guys on this planet there's obviously a lot of them that are completely fine with who she is whatever she is right now. Some actually don't require more than a functioning reproductive system. It doesn't help at all. The post is useless.
>no cheating, give me a blowjob, play with my balls, make me a sandwich once in a while and that's literally it. You're practically quoting a Dane Cook joke here. That's not a good sign.
Chill Faitful Doesn't get pissed/overly emotional easily Has a wide sense of humor Geeky/nerdy, not in the hipster sort of way Takes care of personal health and hygiene No STD's Cute Willing to try new stuff once in a while Able to rationalize situations and decisions, not married to a single opinion, swayed by presumtions or otherwise narrow-minded when facing unknown variables in life
My realistic dating standards are nowhere this specific tho.
>>16856784 Faithful, number one caring nice i guess a bit on the submissive side? (not really into amazonians) and if i could pick a preference, black a i would suppose and maybe we have some stuff in common honestly im not a good example since my standards are very low and ill pretty much take anyone thats not 2/10 ugly or hambeast.
-Pretty but not too much, so that the chances of loosing her are minimal -A positive person, she does not complain too much and has good will to do whatever we plan to -Got her own money -Is honest. -Loves sex and has no shame of expressing/doing her wants
the rest is a match of tastes. Me for example I like cinema and restaurants, I prefer her to like them too.
Logical Faithful Respects space and doesnt want attention the whole time Is not jealous Physically appealing Can grasp a new idea quickly Can hold her own in an argument Able to be goof around with be Able to be serious with me Cares about her personal hygiene Open to rethinking herself or her ideas in case she is wrong Successful Able to pick me up when Im down Knows how to cook Doesnt "test" me Kinky in bed
>>16857535 When I studied physics nearly 10 years ago, a girl like that was in my class. She was a fucking A+ grade material. Beautifull, smart, funny, draw cute sketches in class, etc etc. We didn't have a romantic relationship as we both were in a serious relationship, though we did flirt and had a "vibe". I stopped talking to her because I was starting to loose my self. God I miss her.
This... that other anon basically wants a mommy he can have sex with, which I guess isn't a bad thing considering how many relationships end up like that - manchildren who need a strong partner to take care of them.
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