I've got a group of 8 friends in my uni. I don't have any other friends here, we all have the same major and have almost the same courses.
We'll, one of my 8 friends had a thing with a 5/5 girl that's nice and sweet and everything nice. He dumped her, but she stuck with us and I assumed everything was cool. Three weeks ago I started hanging out with the girl, two weeks ago we started having sex and she said she loves me and I said I love her etc.
One week ago she started having second thoughts, because she still had feelings for my friend who she was with 'first'. My friend doesn't know I had anything going on with the girl. Yesterday I found out my friend was back together with her, she says she's sorry etc. but ''You knew that I'd choose him over you, we agreed on that''.
Should I tell my friend that I had been having sex with his ex-and-current girlfriend and that I have strong feelings for her? Or just man up and never speak a word to him in hope she won't hate me and I'll get her for myself when they eventually/hopefully break up again?
What do you hope to achieve by telling your friend?
>>16856780
I assume he wouldn't be so eager to take her back anymore if he knew that I was with her. He think she's been waiting for him and only him. And I feel like shit, getting dumped like that and having to hang around with those two and watching them cuddle and shit.
>>16856789
So basically your thought process is "if I can't have her, he can't either"
>>16856794
Basically. But he should know so I wouldn't have to deal with their relationship and try to hang around with my group of friends like before.
I think I should try to make new friends, also.
>>16856771
ruin it for them, fuck them, and this girl seems not so great bro.