So I just woke up and realized I've been dating my mom. Not in a romantic way, but still...
I thought I was helping her feel important, but maybe Ive been neglecting my own needs.
So my actual question is why do I so clearly see others' needs, but often miss my own???
>>16856737
You were likely abused in some way as a child that makes you want to make sure the people around you are happy so that you can feel safe.
Seek therapy.
>>16856777
lucky trips speak the truth