So my parents are getting a divorce, and my Mom is telling me

Well, in the end, the only thing that's going to matter are your and your brother's personal opinion of them.

But as a general rule, be wary of the one that is actively trying to slander the other person : In this case, your mom.

Does your dad also tries to make you distrust your mom, or does he keep quiet ?

Both my parents slander each other post-separation. They say awful things about each other but I chose to ignore everything they said, and I live with my mom because of my own personal experience she is the more respectful of the two.

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Well then, it seems like you might already have made your choice.

And your brother, did he took the same decision for the same reason ?