I'm about to get into a relationship with a girl(first time) and I'm really insecure about my size.
Anon you're supposed to measure bone pressed. I did the know that until two weeks ago (I'm 22) and I thought myself small. So much suffering could have been avoided. So I'm just spreading the good word when I can.
Ruler should go in as far as possible measuring from the top. Reason you do this is because the surveys need consistency, and how thick you are shouldn't matter. The stats are based on this measure generally.
They probably wouldn't be honest with you anyway. They'll just tell you what they think people want to hear. The truth is that bigger is almost always better. The sex would probably be much better for this girl if your dick was larger. More orgasms, better orgasms, etc.
>The truth is that bigger is almost always better.
Not really. There is such a thing as too big--feeling like you're being ripped apart, even after proper lubrication, is fucking horrible. For me to get the most out of the experience, I need someone to go balls deep and grind against the outside of my vagina. That's where most of the nerves are. You can't do that, or enjoy it, if a guy is bashing into your cervix. Worst experience I've ever had.
I just don't wanna ruin something because I'm inadequate. I wanna be able to please her aswell. I just wanted to know if it was a bad size or not.
You can be insecure as you want, but don't let it show. If she senses you're insecure about your size she's guaranteed to think you're small as well.
Just don't ask "am I small?" or any shit like that. Girls cringe themselves to sleep at night over guys who pull that shit.
>most women are only about 6 inches deep.
I seriously doubt that. There are probably very few women that can only fit 6 inches of dick. Maybe before they're fully turned on and stretched. And certain angles also allow deeper penetration than others.
Gay, but maybe helps.
BF has large dick which hurts for anal receiving, i have a normal size and it is pleasureable for both of us.
He would like smaller, i am happy. He has around 20cm (and thick, like 4cm) and i have around 16cm/2cm.
I can take quite a size in me but he is an issue and while it feels enjoyable it gets into the hurt area.
I could not do this permanently so i mainly penetrate and get it only a few times/yr which is fine for both.