I can only see my bf once every week. It sucks cause we are very much in love and everytime he has to go it breaks my heart. The time we spend together is over so quickly. I pretty much need quality time and physical affection to feel connected to him. After 2-3 days i can feel that i kind of "forget" how awesome it is when he's over and it feels as if we loose some of that intimate connection. What can i do? We call sometimes but mostly text due to organisatory difficulties. I don't like texting in general and i'm not big with words. I also don't get that intimate feeling. Even if he texts me the sweetest stuff ever. It's just not the same. What do /adv/?
Ldr dont work. Hes already thinking about other girls. Either adapt or die. Stop running from all your problems you fucking pussy. Face them. I'm sick of weak whiners like you fucking everything up for everyone else.
Either change the situation or leave the relationship. There's nothing unreasonable about the feelings you're talking about. In fact that's the problem. The feelings don't need fixing. The circumstances do. Either close the gap and see him more often or find a new boyfriend whom you can see reasonably frequently. There is no other answer. I'm kind of embarrassed for you to need to spell this out for an adult.
If you care, get together. Rent a shitty apartment and cohabit. If this matters to you at all, you need to do everything in your power to be physically present in each other's life.
Discuss it together and consider your options.
It's only temporary. I wouldn't do a real ldr cause i know i'm not the right person to do so. He'll be back again in a couple of months. I love him to bits. It's not like it's extremely bad, it would just be nice. I thought maybe somebody knows a thing or to to feel more connected whilst being apart that doesn't involve creepy ldr-stuff google spews.
I'm in a similar position with my girlfriend. We live over half an hour away from one another (which makes it an hour+ with traffic) and work full time, so the only viable time we can meet is weekends.
I remember there was definitely a period where when she got laid off from her job, and it made it so she was feeling kind of, in her own words, needy and like she wasn't getting to see me enough. Once she got another job though, she chilled back out and everything went back to how it was.
One of the things we used to do (haven't been able to do it in a few months, I've been way too slammed at work) is try to go on weekend trips to places at least once a month. Sometimes it would just be to a new city where we'd spend all our time in a hotel room, but moving to another location helped us feel like we were getting away together and spending more quality time with one another, even if only for a short bit.
TL;DR: You sound needy right now. Either fix that by getting busier, finding options that allow you to make up for it in quality (like taking trips together), or finding someone who can be with you as much as you want.