1. Watch as much porn as you want, but you can never masturbate again
2. Masturbate as much as you want, but you can never watch porn again
Which would you choose and why? I'm asking because a friend's bf chose the first option
Porn isn't that great, I get off to naughty stories and ~imagination~ just fine.
The bad element of jerkin off to porn is the porn. Unrealistic expectations, lowered self worth and ED are not fun.
Any reason why?
He doesn't seem to have those issues, but their sex life is dying and he'll turn down sex because he'd rather watch porn and masturbate. Well now it seems the porn is more important than masturbating for him
No, they both agreed to try no masturbation or porn for a month. Then he realized he's struggling more with not watching porn than not masturbating, which led to the realization that he'd rather choose option 1 than 2
Super super fucked. Spoilers he's still jerkin off. It's far too easy to sneak off and rub one out.
He either ditches the porn or this gets worse and worse.
It's going to be long and hard. But he's gotta get to grips with this or its going to blow up in his face and make a mess.
>Spoilers he's still jerkin off
Nah, I trust him when he accepted the no masturbating for a month. He's very competitive and saw this as a challenge of his willpower. Plus, he was willing to admit when he broke the porn-watching aspect of the challenge
But even with masturbation he seems kind of abnormal. I don't know, I try not to assume things or say my feelings about things should be what everyone feels. It just bothers me when she tells me stories of how he's turned her down for sex but then masturbates. I feel like if my relationship was ever like that, I couldn't stay.
Maybe, but it wasn't a problem before. They used to have sex really often, in all kinds of places. Now he'll even turn her down when she asks or tries to initiate. It's not all the time, but I don't think I'd be able to handle my boyfriend turning me down for sex
Aww shit lol, that was meant for >>16854767
I'm not sure he'd be able to completely stop watching porn though. He tried for a month and wasn't able to, and he even realized that he might be addicted to it. I'm just not sure how their relationship can improve