>>16853886 You can't say it's bullshit since everyone has their own subjective effects. Even if it's placebo, that means it still works sometimes. I did it before and noticed my own set of benefits. Now I find it hard for some reason.
>>16853967 That whole process helped. Beating the urges was important too. You look back on that progress list and remember the time when you almost lapsed but didn't and read what it was over - usually something stupid like ass or browsing /b/.
>>16853986 And I see you do, given the wealth of arguments you've just given. Why are you so adamant in defending your masturbation habit? Stop embarrassing yourself. Nobody can force you to stop jerking it. Nofap is for people who want to experiment with self-development, because for many it's an annoying habit. I just don't get it, why do some guys get offended when they hear "stop fapping". Are you that obsessed, or is it to appear contrarian and smart?
>>16853882 Just be busy, it's fucking easy then. I work a full time job, see friends daily, have responsibilities at home, have multiple hobbies. If you aren't exhausted by the end of the day, you really didn't do enough that day. Usually I just fap once a week with this kind of schedule.
But beyond a week I actually get negative side effects. I guess I'm harboring a lot of stress, because I legit get night terrors and shit.
>>16854046 >just be busy Except you only need 3-5 minutes to do it. You can't keep occupied every minute of the day, or totally focused without breaks. At the end of the day when you're exhausted it's even more tempting to chill out by fapping, even though you might lower your energy for the next day. So being busy doesn't work.
I went a month without fapping and I didn't even have to try hard, I was actually trying to build a big load to blow with someone special but we kept putting it off and I kept holding out until I just lost most of my sex drive. I've got it back but I am nowhere near as horny as I used to be and not as often, but on the bright side after all that no-fapping my load was tremendous
>>16854063 It's not reasonable for someone whose main motivation is hedonism, and who finds no value in controlling one's impulses. It's uncomfortable, but getting out of your comfort zone often leads to growth.
found a gf/lost my virginity, thought that her pussy was really loose, couldn't cum in her because sex was like washing my dick in the shower. the whole thing didn't last a week.
eventually found another one 3 months later (who knew virgin-vibes were a thing), was confused because I had a hard time getting in, but once I was in it felt like nothing again, realized that it might be me. after a lot of trying and 5 hours of fucking I finally had a tiny orgasm. but she was kind of a wreck at that point.
googled delayed ejaculation, compared the symptoms, ascertained the causes, and I told myself i would no longer masturbate if I at least had sex once every two days.
I haven't made any progress so far but I'm optimistic that nofap will help.
I guess you guys should try and find a definite goal, some progress you can measure (that isn't reset completely if you fail once) to gain a sense of achievement without impossibility..
My longest is 2 weeks. Also, many people don't have the similar effects like the others. I am just gonna say how I experienced those 2 weeks. I by character am an introvert, stammers a lot and my voice wasn't too deep.
So, I found this NoFap, that day and decided to fap for the last time and never do it. After reading all the benefits and effects from other people, I was anticipated for the results that are yet to come. Then I came across the fact that the effects kick in at the 3rd or 4th day. 3rd day came in and I didn't find any change that is significant. Okay, 4th day came in and I found a slight boost in my confidence levels and I actually started talking to peoples where in before I never initiated a conversation. The rest of the week I felt more productive and organised. I did far better on presentations than how I used to present before; I stammered less. Professors and other teachers appreciated on my works and on the way I presented. More importantly, I found a slight increase in the number of my friends circle where in before I used to have like 1-2 friends who I'm really close with and I only talked with them.
Coming on to the second week, I noticed the way I talked to girls. I actually didn't had the balls to talk to girls and on the start of the second week of NoFap, I actually initiated conversations with different girls in my class and other batches. I felt real awesome. I felt less anxious and less stressed. I ordered my burgers without that usual social anxiety. I spoke out loud everywhere when before I used to talk like I whispered.
My friend who was on a long leave came back on my 13th day of NoFap and exclaimed the changes in me. She exclaimed of how my sound has changed and how I have changed a lot in my character. I felt super cool that time and didn't know what to reply back.
I did felt urges throughout these days and all I did to get them away was to work out a little bit and visit a park. Overall a 10/10 experience.
I relapsed on the 14th day. My dick felt full with the load inside and I had a sensation of it going to explode. I tried a lot not to fap but when I stood naked to get for a bath, I instantly got horny and ended up fapping to a nude.
The next day(which is 3 days back), I felt really terrible. Had trouble concentrating on phone calls, short-lectures and stuff. But I still wanna get a longer streak and make it to 1 year. Hope I do my best and Good Luck to all those who are in the challenge.
I recommend everyone to try it. The feeling you get is really amazing.
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