Unfair to make someone sleep on the couch?

>>16853711
Sounds like you think yourboyfriend is a loser, in the entire story you just told you didn't mention any bad aspects about yourself in the relationship, you just listed tons of shit he did. If you have no fault in it and he really did all this stuff then fuck him, he sounds like a shithead.

Your first mistake, which is really typical of women in modern western society, is that you picked a shitty mate. Women are generally pretty dumb, and they're very good at choosing bad mates. Why do you think in most societies throughout history they've strongly restricted your ability to freely fuck whoever you want? Who you choose to mate with has very real outcomes for society, and is largely why modern society is as bad as it is right now.

>>16853718
I'll be honest with you, I can't think of anything I've done wrong in this whole situation. I don't pressure him about rent or bills when he doesn't get me the money. I'm a slob, but he knew that before he ever moved in with me and that wasn't what he started the fight about nor has ever been a subject of argument. I tend to pride myself on being very reasonable. "That's fair" is a phrase I use a lot in arguments. I've tried very hard to be understanding and supportive when he's going through shit.

But unfortunately that doesn't answer my question; is it unreasonable to ask someone to sleep in another room when they're drunk and fighting with you?

>>16853725
No. Obviously not. Are you that big a pushover that you have to make a post on that easy of an answer?

>>16853727
Yes. If I've been unfair anywhere and owe him any kind of apology, I will do that. Fights don't end on their own. They end on reconciliation. Generally that means both parties gives somewhere. But I don't know where in this fiasco I have done any wrong. That was the only thing I could think of. I decided to ask an impartial 3rd party.

>>16853730
You sound like a huge pussy so I'll spell it out for you. You are not being unreasonable, from what you said your boyfriend is a tool and an immature brat and if you don't grow some balls and stand up for yourself and your life you will die with a litany of regrets.

>>16853725
You should have broke it off with him much earlier. You should have broke it off when he pulled that shit that got him on the couch. You're being overly nice by giving him the option of being kicked to the couch. I'm betting you already know all of this though.

>>16853739
I probably am, but I'm okay with that when it comes to dealing with people. Being a belligerent self-important cunt doesn't sound all that fun by comparison.

>>16853751
It is when people have your respect. Life isn't just about being confident, I am a forward person in real life as well but with an accumulation of many other great aspects I command respect from all members in my circles. You need to value yourself before you can fix anything.