i need help atm

op here, not much left
>start using drugs to block it away
>start crying less and generally feeling less emotion
>still wont kick out bf

What should i do?

That's a lot anon. I think distancing yourself and your brother from mom is a good idea. I'm not sure escapism is gonna help you but that's of course very easy for me to say from here compared to where you are.

The entire situation seems to need outside intervention to me.

But why does your brother have to come home to that abusive situation? It's no place for a 10yo or anyone really.

>>16852568
yeah i know its not good for a 10yo, but atm there isnt actually a place he can perminantly live in wales, and my mum is trying to find a way to just go up and get him

It seems that both your mother and her BF are at fault here. Your mom's very low self esteem and clingy for the scumbag BF. Have you thought of beating up your mother, not necessarily with your fists? Maybe you could even talk to her and explain she's a bitch? OK, not that way but just tell her your woes. Unless she still doesn't want to listen.

>>16852579
Maybe this is when you contact child protective services? This situation is just so foreign to me but I really want to bump your thread.

>>16852589
Anon is in a very vulnerable situation. It's not a good idea to become homeless right now. If her bf can threaten to kill her kids and she doesn't deal with that why do you think a discussion would help?

>get a tactical pocket knife
>If mums scumbag bf threatens your family
>if he hits anyone
>stab him
>it is self defense and protection of your family
>get brother to live with dad (if his dad is safe)
>tell mom to get her shit together
>figure out what you want to do with yourself currently
>if college is holding you back at the momemnt
>dropout
>find yourself
>get money fuck bitches.

damn
see this is lame
you seem like a homie
people shouldn't have to deal with this nonsense
maybe since he's hitting animals and threatening to kill children you can get him in legal trouble?

>>16852590
not that bad of an idea, though the chance that he does get to live happily with his dad has stopped me
>>16852589
during the week that i stayed at my cousins, thats all i did along side playing katawa shoujo or watching oreimo

>>16852602
i own a pocket knife, but hes like 3 times my size, can fight and im a pussy.
>>16852605
i have no evidence of this, and only one witness that would speeak up and hes 10

>>16852607
Yeah child protective services is probably the way to go if things don't pan out. They probably have anonymous hotlines or the like where you can ask about what they're offering. If you can prepare the situation so it doesn't go bad before they react etc. Over here they're kinda slow according to the papers.
>>16852602
>drop out of college
We don't even know how far along anon is or anything about that.

>>16852629
im not dropping out of college, its my safe haven at the moment. and, even if i mostly act like a hikikomori i still have freinds that i talk to there.
problem with child protective services is that my family avoided them last year, just forgot to include in post, they fucking snake there way out of it everytime anything happens.

>>16852626
are eligible to get a gun? cuz if you are and he is putting YOUR family in danger you better grow a fucking pair and shoot him in the head, knees, or chest multiple times. call swat if you don't have the courage. say "There is a man holding my family hostage and he has a knife" they'll come in no time. go to court and say he's an abusive cunt. get your brother and your brother's dad to testify.

>>16852629
op is in college so I ASSUME at least 18

>>16852657
nope, not available were im at.

>>16852663
you can't even call swat? Swat always has to respond no matter what.

>>16852677
call swat for what? hes not doing anything right now, best case scenario is everyone gets done on possesion of drugs.

>>16852685
>Busting mom and bf for possession
Not too bad.

>>16852796
>busting me for possession

>>16852810
Who says you're to blame? I'm not sure about the law but if you live with someone in possession of drugs then how can you get blamed?

>>16852831
sounds like that wont fly

get fucked

>>16852918
cool, thanks bro.

>>16852496
> "drugs"
. >watch mawaru penguindrum non stop.
>fall into a trip.
>emerge from the abyss.
> feelbetter.png

>>16854338
wat

File police report every time bf is abusive. Cops will get used to seeing him as a shitbag.

>>16855224
thats a pretty cool idea.