So my girlfriend said she sometimes fantasized about her being raped in front of me by a bunch of bad guys, how should I respond to that?
Just as the single most common make fantasy is a FFM threesome, the single most common female fantasy is rape or gangbang.
It has nothing to do with really wanting to be raped. It's a way of imagining totally irresponsible sex - a fantasy of having no control and therefore no need for guilt or inhibition or regret.
rape fantasies are just about the most common fantasy, not much to read into until she starts making suggestions on how to make it happen at which point holy shit you are in trouble, maybe try some roleplay or rougher sex, grab her neck and shit
I had FFM threesome with my girl. It was great. Afterwards she was like, "ok, this means I get MMF at some point".
>so, you want a DP?
no, no way.
>so, you want to get spit roasted?
no, no way.
>so, what then?
Well, maybe like I could make out with him while you did me from behind, or like he plays with my boobs while you go down on me or something.
>Ummm, I don't think that's how it goes down
Women have these fantasies, but IME they don't actually flesh out the reality in their head. When we had my thing, I had a damn checklist, ticking them off in my head one by one...
sometimes when my bf fucked me I imagine people staring at me and calling me a slut.It feels like being a cuck. It's not that you'd actually enjoy it, but your body tells you otherwise...
How do I get my gf to come out with her fetishes/fantasies?
I know I certainly have some, and I'm suspicious she does because she freaked out when she thought I was looking at her porn once, then again it's kind of reasonable to be embarrassed over it either way I guess, but it seems to me she had some sort of dirty fetish porn or something she didn't want me to see, caught her w lesbian porn on it once a long time ago.
I can't just out of nowhere be like, okay I kind of want a footjob.
When I'm horny the idea of sharing her sounds fine desu, I love gangbang porn and watching a slut jerk/suck two guys at once, and it'd mean we'd have to do ffm too. Then again idk if it's fair so well irl or if I'd regret it when not horny
Fantasies are fantasies. They are not real world wants or desires. In fantasies, the individual has all the control. They can stop the scenario or change it at will. Tell her about some embarrassing fantasy you have that you wouldn't actually want to act out.