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Long story short, I'm 35 (a reporter/writer), shes 34 (a nurse), and we started dating about six months ago. She's very nice, caring, gentle and a completelly non-annoying vegan. Also has fucked up past. Pretty soon as we had sex, she mentioned she likes spanking and I did it a couple of times.
About a week ago, we had sort of an intimate discussion about our pasts (my childhood was very violent, but I had a ton of all sorts of therapy and am living my life okay-ish) and she told me of her elementary school fetishes - she desiered for a man to keep her in a box and as she said "do things to her".
Hey I'm a kinky guy, but this sort of a got to me. I'm not scared or anything it's just I wonder ... how do I treat such a woman? Surely lovingly and gently, but since we had spanking fun a few times I now wonder ... I am reading on psychology behind BDSM and things alike, but I said what the heck I'll also ask here. How should i handle this? I was definitelly thinking of talking to my therapist about her.
If anyone cares I frequently browse /tg/. Thatshow I'm on this board.