How do I get my parents to get a divorce? I've literally never seen them happy once. Every day I have to sit and listen to them yell and scream back and forth every fucking day. My dad sleeps on the couch and they never talk or do anything together. My mom spends all day laying in bed drinking hard liquor and the only time she gets up is to come scream and I have to listen to her screaming for 3 hours every fucking day. She's either completely quiet or freaking the fuck out and bitching for hours straight and my dad fucks everything up and doesn't give a fuck about anything so he just makes all our lives shit and she just bitches even more. They're too stupid to get divorced on their own I have to do it for them. This is literally fucking day they literally never stop screaming at each other and all my friends silently judge how sad my house is
You think that a divorce will stop them from being in each others' presence? From what you're saying, they're pretty stupid, right? They keep each other in a vicious circle of codependency otherwise one of them would've stepped out. Give me more details, why are they fighting?
They're poor as fuck like I can't even describe it were the crazy twitchy family that everyone avoids my dad neglects everything my mom needs or wants because all he cares about is cigarettes and tv and my mom cares way too much about life and doesn't even know where to focus her attention they literally always fight about money and shit they need and how my dad does nothing
Financial problems is the number one reason marriages disband, so they're way on their way there. Maybe they will separate very soon or start ignoring each other and keep living in the same place. You could help by sitting down with them and literally asking them to ignore each other. Have you tried talking openly?
Really? In that case it really is codependency. Tough shit, maybe you have to do something else completely. What would happen if you started hiding your mom's liquor or your dad's cigarettes?