there's this girl in my class I've been trying to get closer to but she's too shy so I don't get a chance
I just asked my friend for her number in a casual way where I asked for her number and some other peoples numbers at the same time so it wasnt like I was just after her, she didnt reply for a few hours and now my phone buzzed I think its her but I dont want to look at it because I'm worried I'll sound desperate if I start texting back and I know if I look I'll be compelled to reply
I'm waiting until tomorrow to reply is this a mistake
Jesus, OP, stop acting like a fuckboy and tell us what you texted her and what her response is. Ill tell you if you fucked up, whether to reply and how. And this "I should wait before I reply" thing is fucking retarded.
I havent said anything to her yet. I asked our mutual friend for her phone number and she said she didnt know it so she said she would give her my phone number instead and then a few hours passed by and I got a text but I'm too scared to look at my phone because if its her I know I'll reply but I dont want to look desperate.
I'm much older than would be acceptable to be having this kind of problem, I'm also worried that if its not her or if she said something negative or dismissive then it'll hurt too much for me to handle
I tried to but I couldnt make myself unlock the screen to check I just see 1 message, shes the first girl I've ever tried to go even this far with its gonna be so painful if it goes bad I'll do it in the morning
do I try to talk to her through our mutual friend again or wait until I see her again
I feel like talking to her through a friend was a mistake because it makes me look weak and scared, but I did it just because I wanted to talk to her over the weekend and didnt want to wait until monday to see her again