How do you fix pleasureless orgasms when you're a woman?
- Not masturbating for many months
- Exploring my body for erogenous zones (there aren't any)
- Powerful wand vibrators
- tingly lube
- Actual sex with foreplay and oral with experienced older men
I have no problem getting aroused so finding some new fetish isn't going to help
Please help this is a nightmare.
Why the fuck do women think they dont need to exercise. This is one of many symptoms. regardless of your physical activity an orgasm is the rapid contraction of muscles. If your muscles are too weak it wont feel too good. The stronger the muscles the better the orgasm.
Secondly as far as arousal its not that easy. You want to masturbate with something inferior to sex like fingering yourself to the thought of sex. possibly watch porn while fingering yourself or reading dirty novels or whatever the female equivalent to porn is. This will train you to respond to smaller sexual stimulus.
Mate I've been doing kegels all day every day since I was 13.
Nurses always struggle to get a speculum in my cunt, it's too buff.
I have strong muscular contractions but barely any pleasure.
I quit porn and erotica years ago.
By dictionary definition, there is no such thing as a pleasureless orgasm. Pleasure is the essence of the thing. You're not having orgasms, and it sounds like you're not having much pleasure from non-orgasmic eroticism either.
Stop being goal-oriented and enjoy the journey more. Don't put all your hopes in a Big Bang but focus on the smaller pleasures of touching and being touched. It is when you stop hunting for the beast that it is most likely to sneak up on you.
I'm definitely having orgasms because I feel a release and relaxation and my vagina muscles spasm for 10 seconds or so
I don't enjoy touching or being touched
I can orgasm without thinking about it or even trying not to, so it's not like I'm trying to force it.
But it's not pleasurable.
I don't know what my test levels are but I have a very high sex drive which I can't satisfy with these shitty orgasms
I'm healthy and I get ok sleep, depressed but not on SSRIs and I didn't grow up religious
Play with your butt while playing with your pussy, its the only way my gf can cum, it like a switch.
I actually it might be the only reason she is with me, because I am the first guy to go near her butt.
>I don't have an insane sex drive just a high one
Too much of a good thing can also be bad.
Abstain and save your orgasms or continue having shitty ones, your choice.
You are depressed. God damn it how can you expect your brain to work normal if you already know it has a f.d up biochemistry? Go see a neurologist. If you can't afford it try sex/masturbation on various drugs.
Source: Masters degree in Biochemistry and goddamn f.ing sense.