How do you fix pleasureless orgasms when you're a woman?

>>16850036
Deeper, steady breaths leading up to and through climax.

>>16850062
That actually does help, especially since I started kundalini breathing

But it's only a small increase in pleasure

>>16850036
kegels.
Why the fuck do women think they dont need to exercise. This is one of many symptoms. regardless of your physical activity an orgasm is the rapid contraction of muscles. If your muscles are too weak it wont feel too good. The stronger the muscles the better the orgasm.
Secondly as far as arousal its not that easy. You want to masturbate with something inferior to sex like fingering yourself to the thought of sex. possibly watch porn while fingering yourself or reading dirty novels or whatever the female equivalent to porn is. This will train you to respond to smaller sexual stimulus.

>>16850143
Mate I've been doing kegels all day every day since I was 13.

Nurses always struggle to get a speculum in my cunt, it's too buff.

I have strong muscular contractions but barely any pleasure.

I quit porn and erotica years ago.

>>16850036
By dictionary definition, there is no such thing as a pleasureless orgasm. Pleasure is the essence of the thing. You're not having orgasms, and it sounds like you're not having much pleasure from non-orgasmic eroticism either.

Stop being goal-oriented and enjoy the journey more. Don't put all your hopes in a Big Bang but focus on the smaller pleasures of touching and being touched. It is when you stop hunting for the beast that it is most likely to sneak up on you.

>>16850233
I'm definitely having orgasms because I feel a release and relaxation and my vagina muscles spasm for 10 seconds or so

I don't enjoy touching or being touched

I can orgasm without thinking about it or even trying not to, so it's not like I'm trying to force it.

But it's not pleasurable.

>>16850036
are you healthy?
is sleep okay
test levels
are you depressed
were you raised harcore christian?

OP - any trauma related to sex or you an abused child? Reading your replies it seems to be more of a psychological problem than a physical one. Seek psychiatric help. Luck!

>>16850344
I don't know what my test levels are but I have a very high sex drive which I can't satisfy with these shitty orgasms

I'm healthy and I get ok sleep, depressed but not on SSRIs and I didn't grow up religious

>>16850345
No none of that

>>16850356
>>16850358
then you're a nymphomaniac, hun

>>16851350
I don't have an insane sex drive just a high one, a healthy one that is unsatisfied by this lack of pleasure.

>>16850036
Maybe your nerves are shot.

Please gimme the name of the movie/tv show in pic related? It looks funny.

>>16850036
>- Edging
I've heard people talk about this before ?
What is edging?

>>16852033
Getting close to an orgasm then stopping until it dies down. You do this as many times as you can.

Play with your butt while playing with your pussy, its the only way my gf can cum, it like a switch.

I actually it might be the only reason she is with me, because I am the first guy to go near her butt.

>>16852040
Oh, I sometimes do this jerking off or when getting head
Blow monster loads desu

>>16851632
>I don't have an insane sex drive just a high one
Too much of a good thing can also be bad.
Abstain and save your orgasms or continue having shitty ones, your choice.

>>16852057
I already said I didn't masturbate for many months.

>>16852061
Maybe you've ruined your biology and won't have plesant ones for longer than many months. Have you been to more than one gyno/obgyn?

You are depressed. God damn it how can you expect your brain to work normal if you already know it has a f.d up biochemistry? Go see a neurologist. If you can't afford it try sex/masturbation on various drugs.

Source: Masters degree in Biochemistry and goddamn f.ing sense.

>>16850036

>>16852227
I went on prozac when I was younger that did fuck all

Admittedly I tried masturbating on mdma and both my legs went numb instead of just one, so that's something.

Do you take antidepressants? The older ones such as SSRIs are particularly infamous for destroying sex drive or pleasure form sex.

>>16852241
If you were young than 25 when you were on prozac, it's not surprising that it didn't help. It's kind of notorious for that.

Go to a doctor. That sounds shitty and completely worth the medical prodding to find out what's wrong.

>>16852241

That wasn't md then. Get some good stuff. Also again: try other stuff. Different drugs do different stuff in your brain.

>>16852241
Ssris decrease libido and limit orgasms

>>16852307
I got some good stuff, tested as high concentration mdma and it was crystal

Numbness is good for me, it's a step up from feeling nothing,

>>16852331
I haven't been on SSRIs for years.