Im 21 at university. Little about me. introverted, recovering from social anxiety tremors, looks like the skeleton king reincarnate but ok im working on it. So ive had very little success (zero) with women in the past not even held hands level sad. This is my last year of college regretfully.
Now. Im in a lecture and really cute girl 9/10 walks in late and sits next to me. Ok. Comes the 1st break im a little bitch and we sit in silence. My friend comes talk to me for a bit and i catch her looking at me but whatever means nothing just humans. Feels bad being a bitch. She looks extremely bored.
Next break. Sit in silence for a minute feels too bad. Say fuck this i got no friends no pride no status to lose and ask her how shes finding the class. She lights up and we joke about how rip this class is. Im trying to keep eye contact but moments of social anxiety tremors fk me up so i break off early. She doesn't seem to care and we keep talking and its going pretty swell. I dont notice any obvious signs tho, she never breaks eye contact or blushes or anything while talking. Break ends.
End of class. Ask for her number to share notes and she gives.
What do i do. I got no fking normal friends to invite her out to. Should i forget about her? She will see how unmanly i am. Neediness is repulsive. I just want to improve i feel like a fking kid at 21.
Practice makes perfect.
If you mess up with this girl, you'll do better with the next one. If you do nothing with this girl, you're back to square one.
But what exactly do i do. I mentioned i got no one to invite her out for. Should i ask her out for a drink? Im introverted i only do medium talk. I have experienced how repulsed girls are by neediness they smell that shit anywhere. I feel like the fucking train man
>looks like the skeleton king reincarnate
is this you?
>I got no fking normal friends to invite her out to
you don't need any, just ask her if she wants to go for coffee sometime. you don't want a bunch of cockblocking friends tagging along anyway. just spend time getting to know her and letting her get to know you. if you don't know what to talk about, ask her general questions about her major, what she does in her spare time, shit like that.
You got her number you are basically half way there
Look at it this way: if you don't ask her out no date. If she rejects you no date.
You can do it op
you got her number. If she didn't like you then you wouldn't of got it. So you're in good standing. Obviously don't take it as the green light for fucking already. Just be yourself, talk to her, be honest don't force shit if it doesn't come naturally and if you take nothing but this last piece of advice, try and have fun and if she has fun with you, she'll like you.
Its one of my favourite shows next to NHK. but i dont have time travel.
Thanks. I fucking hate my brain, constantly making excuses and devaluing myself shit. I know you guys will say leagues dont exist but just imagine scott pilgrim guy and your 10/10 conversing. rip puck-man.
I'm going in may my life begin now