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>>16848607
Same thing happened to me last week anon. Just do what i did and leave that all behind. Treat her/him like royalty ans everything will be fine

>>16848607

just tell him you dumb attention whore.

>>16848613
>>16848617
How do you leave it behind? I've treated them like royalty desu and I'm not saying this to rationalize myself.

>>16848626

The only way to be at peace with your conscience is telling him, pray to god to him don't make a big deal about you being a whore.

>>16848617
>>16848631

im a guy, i don't want to break the trust, it will fucking forever create trust issues, this is my first real relationship and i honestly feel so fucking bad, i wish i just knew how to not mess up

>>16848639
fuck this has me so fucked up, I'm almost shedding a tear in public

>>16848639

>i don't want to break the trust

You already did faggot

>it will fucking forever create trust issues

The sooner you starting repairing the better, maybe he will recognize that you really feel bad about it.

>i honestly feel so fucking bad

i doubt it, you're just scared of being exposed.

>i wish i just knew how to not mess up

Not doing stupid shit, and you know that, be a man at once and stop playing the victim

>>16848607
What you did was not that bad. Sure, you crossed a line, but it was with a random stranger, and it was digital. It's not like you fucked her sister the night of your wedding - there is serious, explosive cheating, and then there are minor transgressions like this one. It was wrong, but you can and should forgive yourself.

I think you should talk to your partner about how you are feeling about your body/self esteem in addition to your current plan of taking it as a learning experiences. You should address the fact that your needs are not being met. You don't have to tell her what you did, but if you think she won't go crazy if you tell her confessing might be the way to go. If it will really hurt her, swallowing this guilt might be the kinder thing to do - if you are sure you won't do it again.

Definitely examine your reasons, and why you feel so badly about it, and have some serious conversations about your relationship and needs.

>>16848678
I'm really trying to forgive myself, or moreso, take it as motivation and as a learning experience.

I have a guilt/shame complex and have a tendency to feel extreme guilt for things that I am not responsible for. So for something like this, the agony is painful. A bit better now , but sat in the shower just numb yesterday,

I have, i have tried but its hard to get around the fact that they are busy. I always feel like its my fault for being too needy or being a "blackhole" that is never satisfied. And i feel like if i ask more ill come off as needy, unattractive, and demanding.and that they can just go find someone who isn't as needy as me. So as a result I'm really trying to just work on myself and not be so needy.

>>16848678
also i don't feel any better that it was digital ..

i wish i just had a fucking way to go back in time.

>>16848678
This

Anyone else?

Please help

How long have you been in a relationship with this girl?
I'm sorry but you're going to have to either bite the bullet and tell her or really decide if you want to be in a relationship at all.

>>16848639

Well.. You being a guy makes it a slight problem. Honour trust and honesty being engrained in you since forever.

Pretend to be a little bit female for a while. What would a woman do? How would she jam this back in her mind until it is all but gone.

Try that.