I like him. I thought he likes me too. We hangout together today. Me and him and two other couples. We were like 3 couples hangout together. As i was sitting beside him,when he was checking his phone to call the other girl in our group of friends to know if everything okay with her,i saw on his list there were a contact saved as "baby". He definitely rang her and she rang him back. We actually ring each other sometimes but not that frequently to be almost on the top of the outgoing call and incoming call. I felt miserable. I tried to act like nothing's wrong and I didn't see it. But then when he was checking his notifications center again i saw that contact as a missed call or message I couldn't tell,only the green icon. And this time was unexpected,I didn't want to ever see it again. He then switched off his phone from then.
So he had a gf. Obviously. But why he told our group that he was single for like 3 years. We only friends with him for about 10 months. There was no reason for him to hide his relationship. Plus he was flirting with me for like a month back. He came to my house to check if i am okay when i was sick.
But one thing after this coffee,when another guy asked if we are a couple,he said no. And yes,i said no too. And we told that guy we are just friends.
It's so weird. I'm not heart broken when I found out he has a gf,but still feeling so weird,I don't know what it is.
In a second when i saw that contact I felt so miserable,then thought that maybe me,he saved my contact like that. But then I realized it's possible.
Now what to do /adv. I don't know how to get over it. And i want to know if he has a gf or not. I want to know who is "baby" was. I'm gone crazy.
if this was me giving advice to a guy itd be "plenty of fish in the sea" "find a new girl" "try again" etc
You'd be like the guy who is too beta to see they aren't interested or you are too beta to ask and see.
I'm not a girl but you can dress me up like one
He went to my house to check if i am okay,i had a cold these other days. He always around me in a group,he gave me his scarf when it cold,we almost holding hands once,but he rarely text me or ring me.
Today,as only us waiting for others,he asked me to write he a short essay kinda like that. I told him I'm not doing it for free. I want something back like a gift or so. He said why do I always want things like gifts. He can give something to me physically. At first i told him I don't like it if he only says thanks. Then he said no. He'll give me something more. He made me think he's going to confess. Now turned out this way I'm feeling so miserable,embarrassing and it hurts me.
No no it's maybe my fault. It meant to be a gift that not worth by money,a gift that money can't by it. He didn't wanted something physically with me.
If it's a pross of relationship and he has his choice to seeing another girl,I don't think he could save her as "baby".
Looks like he mean it serious with ya! Cause he act right to ya?! Maybe she is his ex? I didn't changed name either when I list my ex until my life change... My advise to ya is to seriously ask him if he is in a relation with her!
No her contact showed up (almost) on the top of the list of incoming call and outgoing call. He rang me like 3 days ago I don't think that it could be on the top,he must be almost ring nobody except me or two more people. I can't ask him. If i ask him he knows i check it his phone out while he was browsing it.
And it is your RIGHT to know the truth! What he thinks you should act like when he is handling with his phone? Look in other direction! No that's not you. And with this behav u show him that u mean it seriously
I try to explain... If I would have a gf and show up with a possible new relationship, cause in my opinion he is tryin to get together with ya. In the moment when he is with you and phone with her is the moment for me to decide! I would feel bad to lie to a poss new relation...
You have to know that he never said a word that he wants to dating me something. We just hanging out together. We felt something but we never say it out. I am nothing to him to ask this question. Plus if i do it it means i care too much about him wich he didn't care about me at all. If he does he could never let me look at his phone when he's browsing it.
Hmm no, he also knows it! That there is something between you. Or are you just actin as a friend! But u already holdin hands and def spend time together! Men exactly knows about the next step. If I send time more than might be normal between friends while I have a girl at home... No he knows that ure in a crush!!!
I don't know you but I can totally feel it that u are thinking about him... And yes , serious relationships are startin with this incredible gameplay. Touching each other accidentally, spending time together without tellin the other about the trie feelin. Totally nice gameplay between men and women
U see! You are in a crush! He knows it! He feels it. And he want to spend his time together with you. Even if it is just as a friend. I think so he likes more... But there could be somebody else! And he don't want to hurt her. Good guy behavior. Specially then it is important that you are gonna make the first step! That will help him a lot
Wow, you really would step back? Then you are a honest and nice person! You don't want to destroy the relation between them! But let me tell you. The reason why us men don't tell the truth about a gf at home to a women during a friendship is we like to have more with that friend! If it would be only sex, which I don't think it's that case, he would try it meanwhile. Guess he also likes you but his gf could be a person who would act very horrible!
Nah it's more so how your upset or kind of obsessive over this which i find pretty weird but meh, do what you gotta do.