I think a girl I was seeing is seeing someone else, its okay to ask her if she is seing someone?
Are you still seeing her? If so, a conversation about whether you are exclusive or not is reasonable.
If not, it is not really your business. You can ask, but she doesn't have to answer.
just ask her out then
I like a girl like yours, i asked her out but she said she doesn't want a relationship with anyone. We are good friends, and flirt alot, and have kissed before. But i think she just wants no commitment. So i always worry shes having sex with other dudes.but there is nothing i can do about it :/
she might actually care. like the girl i mentioned, she cares about me a lot. is not my delusion, but she actually does care. She goes out of her way to do sweet things for me. a lot. she just doesn't want a relationship. (which hurts me a lot desu, i hate hate HATE the thought she is getting dicked by other dudes)..
but. your girl might care about you too.
>I think a girl I was seeing is seeing someone else, its okay to ask her if she is seing someone?
The short answer is yes. Its always okay to be honest and open about your concerns and intentions. Lack of communication is what leads to hurt feelings and misunderstandings.
damn, um i dunno man. I'm not good with these things, I struggle a lot with the girl i mentioned before. We care about each other, but i always get really anxious and irritated when she hangs out with guys (i don't tell her this obviously).
maybe give her some time then try to re contact her?
that sucks man. maybe thats the smart thing to do. I really hurt sometimes when i find out my friend is hanging out with another guy. its so fucking painful. I hate feelings. feelings are bullshit. But we are too close friends for me to cut contact with her.