My boyfriend has a huge dick. About 8 inches long, 6inches in girth. Normally, I'd be totally excited about him being so well endowed, but the thing is I have a very small mouth. I can't get half of him into my mouth without his head scraping against my teeth.
Normally, I'd solve the problem by no having oral sex and sticking to hand and penetration but my handjobs are mediocre and were waiting g for marriage for sex.
We still try and do stuff, and he always gets off, but I just wish I could do something more.
Any advice for dealing with a large penis?
Also, when we get married, my pussy is pretty tight, he usually uses one finger when fingering me so I'm a bit scared for sex when the time comes.
of course they are. Why wouldnt they be. Its not like anal with clear penetration and thrusting. Its not quite outcourse but if its not throat fucking her its not really 'sex' in the sense of intercourse.
8 inches is actually huge. As a guy with 8" its the upper limit of functional. Mabye a little beyond that depending on the girl. Its not monsterous but for a dick that has sex its huge. Hell I feel like shit because if I dont leave an inch out I hit a girls cervix and many positions are off limits.
Id sat 7.5 is maximum functional length and that extra .5 is taking a small hit for an ego boost. But fuck if Id want to be one of those guys whos dick is half out.
Are you seriously this dense? Do you think no sex before marriage is just a very specific order that can be circumnavigated by any other sexual act? This is from the same line of thought that tells boys not to masturbate.
Live according to your ideology if you like but there's literally no point in that if you just take it half arsed. You may as well just enjoy and experience life in the way you clearly actually want to.
Most likely when the time comes, it will be painful and he'll hit your cervix.Ensure that there is plenty of foreplay, tell him above all to be gentle, and use lots of lubricant.
>Not having sex before marriage
Have you tried killing yourself? Because this is the dumbest fucking thing I have read all day. As if blowjobs don't count for whatever stupid reason you're waiting. If you're putting his dick in your body you're having sex you dumb cunt. The solution is simple: put his dick in your vagina.
I have the same problem, but I'm even thicker at 6.5" and almost 9" long. Yes seriously.
I have had sex with a lot of girls and most of them love it, really get off on it being so big, but many have trouble taking me which means going slowly and gently until it's comfortable.
Going deep requires a lot of care as very few chicks can handle having their cervix bumped but it does mean I can reach the anterior fornix, which is a plus. Anal is not possible.
For OP, you don't need to take a lot of his big cock in your mouth. Mainly focus on getting the head and the next 2" inside. If that's uncomfortable then learn how to wrap your lips around the head from the underside. So instead of bobbing up and down you work on it sideways. The underside will be more sensitive than the top.
To simulate a full blow job warp both hands arond him and use them in front of your mouth. So his cock slides through your hands then into your mouth but only as deep as you're comfortable with. He will love it and if done properly it will be hard to tell where your hand stop and your mouth begins, so it just feels fabulous.
Christian fundamentalists hate HER. Learn how this WHORE is cheating ABSTINENCE with this one WEIRD trick.
>his dick is too big
If you don't want it give it to me.
When the time for intervourse that first time you are going to be nervous. So make sure he gets you off by fingers or tongue first. Your vagina will relax a bit after your orgasm. Next use lots of lube, on his cock and both the outside and inside of your pussy.
Next, go slow. When a long thick cock enters the first few strokes will sort of drag your labia inwards. So although your opening is wet your lips may not be and they sort of get dragged in causing a painful Chinese burn feeling for both of you. Don't worry about being too tight, the lube will let him slide in and you'll stretch.... it will feel good as you open around him... if it hurts, more lube on his cock. Seriously this will make a big difference.
So, to emphasise, use plenty of lube all over your pussy that first time. Then he needs to enter you in stages. First few strokes are with just the head to spread the lube inside you. If all good then gradually go deeper, only a little bit each time until you say it's enough.
You both need to control the depth and speed, go slow although you'll want to go faster, and within a minute or so your pussy will have adjusted to his length and girth and will be able to take more.
Maybe you'll be able to take all of him, maybe not, but it doesn't matter because it doesn't feel any different if he's six inches inside or eight inches inside.
When you're both more experienced you'll be able to go at it however you like.
TL;dr. Lots of lube all over, inside and out. Go slow, with initial entry done in slow, gentle stages to spread the lube.
>big dicks will never know what's it's like to be balls deep in a bitch and have her moan in pleasure instead of yell in pain
You haven't lived until you've came in a girl while she takes you to the hilt
Average dick masterrace
You put a lot of shit in your mouth. Your mouth isnt a sexual organ.
If you are fucking her mouth then you can make an argument about using it as a replacement. But being sucked on is not sex.
Not cheating when it was never off limits. Its like a handjob isnt cheating.
>Do you think no sex before marriage is just a very specific order that can be circumnavigated by any other sexual act?
Depends on what your belief is about no sex before marriage. With your line of thinking masturbation is off limit. Not everyone considers masturbation sex.
>Live according to your ideology if you like but there's literally no point in that if you just take it half arsed.
Theres nothing half assed about it. No sex before marriage because [insert your reasons]. For me its because of the importance of sex, not the orgasm. I also think all of you are freaks for anal sex.
Masturbation isn't involving another person. Anything with another person is by definition a sexual act.
You're an idiot and you're deluding yourself if you think that this fits in with religious no sex before marriage.
Sexual act is fine. Its not sex. Theres a difference between no sex before marriage and no physical contact with the opposite sex. It depends on your reasons. For most, sexual contact is not the reason to abstain.
No, no BS. Each guy is different of course but mastering the underside technique allows a girl to use the lips and tongue to follow the coronal ridges of the glans. I wasn't referring to the underside of the shaft.
Send your gf to me, I'll instruct her how to do it properly by letting her practice on my cock and then I'll send her back. You'll thank me.
I have the same problem, my dick is longer than a schoolbus. I tell her to try to lick it little by little, bit she understands, and gets to work. It takes me one whole month of nonstop licking but after that I blow enough cum to fill a swimming pool. The big dick life is hard, you know.
You haven't lived until your girl squirms and gasps with delight as your big thick cock slowly stretches her pussy and she starts cumming within the first few thrusts. And by the time you cum, you are balls deep in her if you've fucked her properly.
Or when she lays next to you, holding it in her hand with a dead set look of hunger and fascination as she finds her hands aren't wide enough to cover end to end or her fingers long enough to go right around it.
Or, when she experiments with it, lips, tongue, fingers to find what works best for you. Playing with her new toy and sharing the OMG moments.
Or, when she tells her gfs because it's so amazing and they try to look at you and your crotch without being obvious. Some almost stare and you know they really want to see it and play with it. After breaking up its never difficult asking one of her friends out, they are almost forming a queue.
Or, when she makes you lie still on your back and she lies on your chest, her breath heavy against your neck as she positions herself, raising her hips and slowly lowering herself, working you inside a bit at a time, her little cries and gasps as she cums while she fucks you are sweet and powerful to hear.
Or.... Never mind, I think you've got the idea by now.
Remember that a vagina is elastic, so no matter how big your dick it's usually big enough to pleasure her if you know how to do it. And that's knowing how to make love to a girl, how to look after her pleasure and find what works using your fingers and tongue and cock.
But, I still get told how they've never felt anything like my big cock and how much they love it (and not just inside them) and they often can't stop telling me how much bigger I am than their bf or husband.
Sorry, I've written so much I've forgotten what your point was....
You are literally letting a cock penetrate your mouth when you give head. There is no arguing that. You're rationalizing it to fit what you want it to. It is simply idiotic to say you're saving yourself for marriage, but then still give head and hand jobs.
Also, according to how you view it, giving head is perfectly fine if you're married to someone else because hey, it's not sex.
>penetrate your mouth
the mouth is not a sexual organ.
And your logic is retarded. Kissing isnt sex either and its not okay even if your married. Just because it isnt sexual intercourse doesnt mean its fine.
The mouth is often used sexually. It's being penetrated. The original post claimed there wasn't penetration which is literally wrong.
You're just straight up deluding yourself. If you're abstaining from sex for a religious reason, there isn't a fucking asterisk that says giving head is fine. There is no legitimate reason to wait for marriage and the rationalization that people like you use to make up your own rules shows this.
And when a gynecologist inserts a clamp into your vagina you're not being sexually assaulted by the doctor either. You're still being penetrated though. You're the faggot who's trying to rationalize why giving head "doesn't count." I didn't think there were actually people out there who were that idiotic.
Not even him, but come on. There is no reasonable frame of thinking under which sucking a cock or finger-banging isn't sex. The mental contortions you're going through to justify it are at best worrying. You're literally like people who say "it's not gay if balls don't touch".
People kiss in children shows. However you won't see someone getting a non-simulated blowjob unless it's a porno. Are you so deluded / trolling that you can't figure out why?
So getting a clamp into your vagina is now considered sex. Keep trying.
I dont see the sexual intercourse there. its gay to even show affection towards another guy. Sex is off limits. You might as well say masturbation is off limits. thats not how it works.
Ok, I'm not site if you're being purposely dense just to tell, or of you just have really poor reading comprehension. I never said it was sex, I said it was penetration.
Do you honestly believe head doesn't count? Religion is the only reason I can think of why someone would stupidly wait until marriage. Why don't you go ask your pastor if giving/receiving head is cool. I'm sure they would give the go ahead, right?
>Religion is the only reason I can think of why someone would stupidly wait until marriage.
Thats because you have no idea what you are talking about or what religion even is. Its a relationship between you and god. Not your pastor. Same thing if your reason is non religious.
It might simply be symbolism of waiting as some sign of ultimate committment. Which is kinda nice but may not make up for all that waiting only to find out the sex is bad when it does happen.
Ah, so it's cool to make up your own rules. Got it.
I think it's pretty obvious to anyone reading how many mental gymnastics you have to go through to rationalize this the way you do.
>make up your own rule
Yeah because abstaining is something you are doing. Youre not joining a cult of other people and abiding by their rules. If you didnt you couldnt even masturbate.
Abstain from sexual intercourse is all you need.
So at what point does it become not ok? Do the hips have to remain perfectly motionless? No pressure to the head? Or was >>16825766 correct in that it just can't touch the throat?
So no hip mouton then? What of I have my hands on her head but don't press down at all?
You're being so ridiculous that I still can't tell if you're just trolling. If not, have fun being fake abstinent.
>holding her head and pushing it up and down on your cock
Are you 10? If that's the case, your conversation with anon makes a lot more sense.
Your reading comprehension is awful. He was asking where your arbitrary line was between ok oral sex and not ok oral sex. That was the whole point. You're too stupid to make fun of.
Ive already stated it. face fucking. Touching someones head which he described at first isnt shoving it onto your dick.
>Whats the arbitrary line between touching someone and pushing them
Are your really this stupid.
>Are you really this stupid.
I'm not the one trying to argue an arbitrary and made up abstinence system with loopholes, rationalizations, and a vague difference of where oral sex stops being ok.
I had the same problem with a girl awhile back. She was a toothy bitch and looked the part.
Her teeth would scrape any time she tried to take it; it wasn't pleasant.
Suck what you can of it without the scraping. Don't force too much in unless he's into that. Use your hand on what you can't take in your mouth.
>waiting for marriage
imo, not the best idea. You could be stuck with a partner you aren't sexually compatible with.
6.3x5 inches here and it can hurt my gf at sometines, she called it big and she gags and releases some tears when she tries to deepthroats me. So yes, I'd say 8 inches is really huge.