I'm going out on a date with a girl in a wheelchair. What are some handicapped-friendly fun places I can take her?
um... maybe you should tell us what she likes first?
handicapped people still have differences in taste just like regular people.
your job is to figure out how do to what she likes without adding to the problems.
But she is handicapped. So when he asks the staff if a place is suitable for the handicapped, should he whisper the word to the staff so she won`t get hurt by what she will live with for her entire life anyway?
Ask if they're wheelchair-accessible, then. That's plenty.
Also, just a quick note: people in wheelchairs generally use beds, just like anyone else. The logistics of using a wheelchair for any of the common uses of beds are nightmarish: you can put the brakes on, but there just isn't enough space. The results, therefore, are generally not much different than for anyone else. Sorry to shatter illusions.