girlfriend wants "proof" where im at by sending her pics etc every hour, tried explaining its overkill. she over feel and mad. What the fuck to do.
op here. Almost a year ago she thought i was cheating. Wasn't tho and always have been blaming me that im suspicious for the most ridiculous things. I love her but fuck feeling guilty for no reason.
Op again. Long story short I had a very very light fling with a girl. (Just barely kissing her) remained friends during relationship with current gf. Gf didnt like it, dropped all contact with girl, We never did anything to cheat but gf harbors thoughts that I "would of" if remained friends. Did i fuck up ??
She sounds insecure. You didn't do anything wrong. Just reaffirm your love or whatever when it's convenient and lay down to boundaries. If you let her continue with this shit every little thing will set her off. It'll be bad for both of you.
>anon you need to semd me hourly updates
>no, thats literally insane, liaten to yourself
>she chimps out like women do
>she wother apologises and foxes her behavior because shes afraid to lose you, or she leaves.
Either way its a win.
Look, if you seriously like this girl. You would leave her. Simple as that. She has to learn that being this clingy is stupid wrong. She will go through all stages of grief. Then, She will either, A, come back for forgiveness, hopefully stop being insecure. Or B, move on. Either way no more clingy.
It's weird that you would try to remain friends with someone you were sexually/romantically attracted to. It just sends the wrong signals and is at the same level as trying to remain friends with an ex where the relationship ended, not because you didn't like each other, but circumstances kept you apart.
Man OP. Been in a relationship like that. If I could go back in time and do it all over again, I'd put my foot down and tell the bitch that if she doesn't trust me and needs physical evidence to believe I'm being sincere, then she can royally find someone else.
What I do is find the nearest woman and ask her if I could get a selfie with her smiling all happy and such, then send it to her. I'd keep this up until she broke up with me or stop asking me for pictures
That's an abusive relationship.
Tell her that what she's doing is abusive and controlling, and if she doesn't correct her behavior, break up with her.
If she were a guy and you were the girl, this would be a very alarming situation and other people would likely come to your aid.