I really should know this by now but no. Another girl seems to be into me but I don't know if I like girls?
She's pretty amazing. Cooks like a pro and is nice and sweet. And I feel emotionally aroused by her for sure. Is this sexual attraction?
I dated a girl for a while in high school but it was definitely not love or anything. Also was a big mistake...
Usually I like guys. I hope this can work.
It's hard to feel much of anything these days. My heart's scarred and battle-torn :(
>It's hard to feel much of anything these days. My heart's scarred and battle-torn
I'm sorry to hear that. But if you don't mind my asking, how did that happen? It may be relevant to this question.
There's a lot I won't talk about. But I've lost the people closest to me, over and over again. Not just romantic love, if I've ever known it. But all kinds of love.
For a while it just seemed like the slow fate of love. Now it's turned kinda cruel and personal and I don't think I'm capable of love anymore. When I start having real feelings I put up defenses.
You'll never tempt me, Pegasus. I've been hurt in the past but remain pure in spite of my scars. Really I'm like the physical embodiment of loving compassion and true martyrdom.
I'll suffer for the world, though incapable of truly understanding or knowing it.
The way to Hell is paved with good intentions
I've lived through hell. It doesn't scare me.
I don't know. Sometimes I don't want sex at all. Drive is low most of the time.
Everything is going to be just fine. My therapist thinks so.
>believing someone you pay to tell you nice things
Most likely you actually just hate yourself so much that you think you're below every other person on earth and feel that the only thing worthwhile to do with your life is to make the deserving people feel good.
Talk therapy is very beneficial. Dunno why you gotta be a fag about it desu.
Most likely? Yeah no. I'm fucking amazing and don't give a shit what anyone thinks. I don't even know if I like people enough to want to be close to one.
Other people only seem to complicate my life. Idk why I sometimes want them.
Get the fuck out.
You're pretty wonderful. We'll all make it, anon!
You're paying someone to listen to your first world problems
I didn't say it wasn't beneficial but don't pretend like its something more than that
Forget about 'a' girl. If sucking tits,and licking pussy and nice asses and fucking a girl turns you on you are into women. If''a' woman and only 'a' woman turns you on it is oneitus and you are obsessed not attracted.
I'm not arguing anything I just disagree with method
But you're wrong, I'm not better than that
>You're better than that.
no he's not, I've been watching this piece of lunchmeat for months, thanks to his habit of making himself difficult to ignore. and all he does is shit on people. granted some of them might deserve to be shit on, but we all do stupid shit. /adv/ is here to help people stop being stupid, not for shitting on them. that's what bee is for.
am inclined to agree with this. if OP has tried women before and still can't tell if she's attracted to them, she's probably not.
So which method do you disagree with? Talk therapy as a whole, or the "everything will be fine" piece?
And stop being so emo. No one cares that you're deficient in feelings of self-worth.
Pegasus is here to entertain himself. And if we're being honest pretty much everything posted here is self-serving distraction. I think he's one of the best posters because he's consistently creative in spite of his obvious RL failings. Don't tell him I said that though; it would only further encourage his unfortunate addiction.
Talk therapy as a whole, I don't see how talking to someone about issues can solve them (when they're mental issues not practical)
H-Hey now take it easy...
I think you're just talking. You don't know what you have an issue with here and you can't form a concrete argument against it.
Sorry if I went too far...
I didn't mean to hurt you or anything.
Talk therapy really does help. I've done CBT and DBT, and it's really helped me with self-esteem and is ultimately what got me to stop self-harming (which I've struggled with for a while now.).
I know it sounds like bullshit, but it's not. I was surprised too.
So now you're into hurting others! Great therapist! When can I see him/her? Maybe they can teach me how to hurt you back without getting caught. It was great seeing Anouk run past me again.
I guess I don't know what talk therapy is then
>tfw you're the only person that understands me on this fucking board
Explaining myself is too cumbersome; especially when nobody actually cares
This is why Taylor keeps having guys drive off: http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/28/the-death-of-rollo-tomassi/
Thanks for making my life miserable all these months. Don't forget to thank your friends either.
I'm really glad it helped you. Self-harm is something I've struggled with too. People don't ever seem to take it seriously.
It doesn't sound like bullshit.
You're somewhat intelligent and insightful with an appetite for self-destruction. It's a sad combination and I hope you get your shit together for real, but until then I hope you continue entertaining us. The posters here love having someone to hate, you pathetic loser you.
If this somehow involves me you can email and we can talk. Lemme know if you need info.
You're entitled to your feelings but they're wrong
Well you are, but it's so obvious that you hate yourself it's painful. You can maintain your dgaf attitude all you want, but you can't fool me.
This sort of entertainment, that you like to create? It's a part of the self-perpetuating cycle of negativity that you're so affected by.
Then stop trying to frame me as an emotional reactionary
why would i want to talk to you? i don't have time for your baggage and i'll probably have a gf soon if i turn out to like girls. can't have a social life AND spend my life chatting with hopeless mean people.
you'll never meet someone as interesting, creative, and awesome as me. i'll continue to get better and live a full life through therapy and sincere self-determination.
you'll stay as you are.
Personally I love peggyboi.
Don't let her confuse you m8 no one understands anyone here. She only understands and knows your mask.
I love your beautiful charade. I'd meet you in person just to see how much of it was real.
Ride the battleship to victory!
funny how you said
someone instead of "a girl like me" or "woman like me"
you fucking people lol rrRealy
forcing yourself through life while i float effortlessly by so opposite
talk to me when you're sober. you're really making as ass of yourself here.
and don't think you meant anything to me because you didn't.
i can't even make sense of what you're saying.
I'm a man baby
>making an ass out of myself
who cares lol its all a big fucking joke
which is why you said you missed me the other day right
at least be consistent
you're probably pretty depressed over losing your gf. i feel sorry for you but am gonna go i think.
i'm trying to figure out if i like girls Pegasus, and think i really like this girl. she's nice, and real. which is important. you're an interesting person too but i get the feeling that you're a lot more destructive than you know.
you said some sweet things to me that no one else had before. but it doesn't mean i liked you or anything.
Don't feed me bullshit after you just said you don't care about me
you're the one that stopped talking to me out of nowhere. i figured you didn't care about me.
how was i supposed to deal with that? did you want me to cry over it? i've been hurt too many times to get worked up over you. you really have no idea.
well. I went to the community gym tonight. a very attractive girl hopped on the treadmill next to me, and I immediately had to go into 'don't do it, eyes forward. she's here to work out not get oggled. eyes forward damn it" mode
so if things like that happen, you're probably atttracted to women.
I'll admit I can't say I kept eyes entirely forward. CMON THERE WERE YOGA PANTS, who can fight that shit. sorry, kinda not sorry. if things like that happen you know for sure you're attracted to women.
its when you struggle to balance your "omg hot girl" reaction with at least trying to not be a complete horn dog. when you don't try to hit on the girl with the head phones in obviously just trying to get a work out in out of respect and then deal with regretting not at least trying it.
That's a lie
Even if it wasn't I don't deserve any of it