So I have an issue whenever I masturbate I keep thinking about this one girl over and over, shes outta reach so I cant get with her but whenever I see porn and another girl in it I just imagine the girl I like in that kind of situation and I blow my load, no matter what I do sub conciously I keep going back to her even if I try to just focus on the girl, even if the girl looks nothing like her. Its just the situation that I get off with. How the fuck can I stop this shit I aint get enough game right now to just go fuck random girls
You NEED to stop this. I spent a few months masturbating daily to one girl. Now I have a unbreakable crush on her and it's ruining my marriage.
Don't condition yourself like this.
You need to stop. Now.
Easier said than done, yes, which should be setting all kinds of alarm bells off for you.
Maybe try and find some kind of fetish stuff that you don't associate with her, and start filling in with that instead. You need to do something though, or you're going to mess yourself up well and truly.
Source: personal experience.
When you jack off, do you edge?
When you jack off, try to bring yourself close to ejaculation, then stop and relax for a second. Then continue, reach a 8/10, then stop. Repeat five times before you blow your load, try to train yourself to last as long as possible without stopping.
You shouldn't cum until at least fifteen minutes of masturbating. Otherwise you're training your dick to blow it's load super fast.
Also avoid fapping to porn. When I fap, I think of my gf. Anything else feels like it fucks with my brain. if I jack off to another girl too many times, I start to become less attracted to my gf and find myself thinking about the other girl.
are you me? lol i do exactly the same thing. i do it less now then i used to but i would always search for porn with a girl that looked like my ex and i would wank to it. i knew i should but i couldn't get off any other way.
I don't have a solid girl to jerk off to, the ones at school at not that hot honestly and I dont have enough interaction to make a mental folder to use for material. Does edging just help the orgasm be stronger? Side note im a virgin so no matter what its gonna be super fast for now.
If it was that easy for me also i wouldnt be on this board bitching and feeling like complete shit right now knowing she is happy with someone else and doesnt care about me anymore