My girlfriend broke up with me a few hours ago, now I feel like complete utter garbage. I honestly feel like dying. She saw that I still texted my ex, but I can't help it. My ex is the mother of my child so I talk to her to keep in touch with my daughter. Now I don't know what to do. Any thoughts?
Thanks. I see her whenever her mother feels like it. I don't even get along that well with her because she took my daughter away from me, and my NOW ex thinks I haven't gotten over her. How can I still love someone who took my daughter away from me?
The title was "I fucked up"
so no surprise there.
I mean.. there is nothing fucked up about asking your ex how your daughter is doing.
There is something fucked up about asking your ex for nudes and telling her how much you want to shoot a big load in her face.
First off sounds like a cunt because yeah mother of your child.. Cant exactly cut that off...
Second, you need a bit of neuroscience in your life right now.
The drugs in your brain associated with love are highly addictive. A breakup means you are losing that "fix" now, and you will think of her because that is who your brain associates those feelings to.
What you are experiencing is highly comparable to heroine withdrawal.
It will suck. You will be fine. Youre gonna feel like shit, just know that science is king, and you can trust it when it tells you there was nothing ACTUALLY special about this girl, and you will feel better.
This actually makes me feel a lot better. I had about a 3 hour conversation with her, and you guys are right. She's just immature. I never texted my ex for nudes or anything. Just for pictures of my daughter and how she was. I mean, she's barely 2, I need to know how she is. I'll get over her
No problem. Remember me next time you have literally any problem, then do some research. Virtually nothing is as bad as it seems.
All chemisty and neurons. Thats all. And with that knowledge comes the power of control over your emotions.