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Anyone ever successfully gotten rid of a cuckold and/or femdom fetish?

I hate the fact I have these.

I'll save us all time by saying I don't want to hear "Accept yourself" or "Embrace who you are".

I want to change.
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>>16810206
Femdom is best dom
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Stop getting off to porn and work on developing your sexuality
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>>16810354
"work on developing your sexuality"

What the fuck does that even mean

shit normies say i swear
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>>16810354

this. its easier to surprsess those types of things when they arent a daily part of your life.

cut the porn, NEVER go on /b/, and focus instead on having sex in real life. i recently developed a black fetish, and its annoying as fuck
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>>16810354

How do I develop my sexuality, can you be more specific?
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>>16810363

How confident are you that you can overcome it? Before this have you had a normal healthy sexual appetite?
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>>16810371

100% confident. despite the black fetish i still managed to have sex twice (last night and this morning) with a qt brazilian (light brown, not the basically black kind) 22 year old.

the fetish has slowed down sex with other people, but i think part of that is just getting bored with that partner
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>>16810368

have sex. porn/fantasy is not the same as reality.

ion my fantasies im a slutty little bottom boi getting gangbanged by daddies in public.

in real life i dont even like having someone stick a finger up my butt, and much prefer younger qts.

go out and start having sex with people you find yourself attracted to, and see what develops. you might still lean towards assertive women, but not quite femdom. instead of learning what your brain likes, learn what your body likes as well.

I find that sex is far more enjoyable as i learn that there is more to it then just he feelings in the tip of my penis. i also love having my balls rubbed, for instance
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>>16810396
So your advice is to be born attractive

Very helpful
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>>16810401

>so your advice is to be born attractive

nope. if ur ugly, then my advice is lower your standards. theres always people willing to have sex. games you have to play and hoops you have to jump through.

but if ur not getting laid at all and have no chance to, what does it matter if ur into cuckold and femdom?

i had to quit my porn cuz i was focusing more on porn than having sex. but if ur not having sex offers whats the problem with ur porn?
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Op here, read your all comments. I've had 3 sexual partners and I'm 24. So kind of in experienced.

I'm off to bed now, will check thread in morning. Thanks for replies niggas.
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Similar question: how do I stop being bi and just be straight?
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guys how do I stop being attracted to girls and start being attracted to whoever will give me money for sex? That's the most advantageous thing to be attracted to, isn't it? I want that.
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>>16810669
Plain old Pegasus looks so bare

I'm glad I started using titles
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>>16810361
Shitposting is not a job you worthless NEET.
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>>16810704
Reading comprehension isn't your cup of tea is it
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>>16810707
He's not wrong, you're a worthless pile of human garbage
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>>16810744
Depending on which country, human garbage can actually be quite profitable
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>>16810750
Profitable in that you have money of your own or profitable in that you find meaning in being trash? Either way, I don't believe you are personally "profitable" in any way.
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>>16810763
Neither I meant human waste products can be recycled and sold

I don't care what you think about me
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>>16810622
Date a girl that looks like a boy.
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I guess stop being such a damn successful and dominant person in your day-to-day life. That way your repressed sexual desires will change.
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>>16810206

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/42eri3/sexual_reality_and_how_we_dismiss_it/
"Summary: Sex is the oldest and most universal of tests. Our ever-changing view of what sex means (performance, masculinity/femininity, intimacy, pleasure) is just the criteria upon which the test is graded. Lack of sexual freedom, impotence, and sexual inhibition is endemic to many cultures, both modern and ancient. It may even be instinctive. Furthermore, our wild, liberated sexual fantasies (and representations in media) are poor representations of sexual reality, yet we still judge our sexual adequacy and self-worth based on fulfilling them. Sex has historically been a ritualized, non-intimate activity, and most people are oblivious of their partners' experience and dishonest about their own anyway."
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>>16810206

Get rid of feminine colors from your room, and add masculine colors.

-silver
-blue

+red
+dark browns
+orange
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>>16811377

You being cereal?
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>>16811369

I read that but I still don't understand the connection between that and me not wanting to be cuckolded or dominated.
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The Ludovico Technique
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You can change a replacement for those thing you 'hate' liking. But that's very personal/specific work which you'd have to think over.

I replaced my porn adiction with "cute" and "pastel-colored" imagery (as in with tumblr, facebook, and such).
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I'm very, very interested in this question as well. I have a kind of upsetting fetish (not cuckolding, but it's just as icky) that I have absolutely no desire to ever turn into a reality. Right now all I'm getting from it is a hit of self-loathing every time I masturbate and the compulsive need to clear my browser history before I let my girlfriend borrow my laptop. I have zero interest in ever "coming to terms with it" and accepting it as a feature of my personality.

I want it gone.
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