Anyone ever successfully gotten rid of a cuckold and/or femdom fetish?
I hate the fact I have these.
I'll save us all time by saying I don't want to hear "Accept yourself" or "Embrace who you are".
I want to change.
this. its easier to surprsess those types of things when they arent a daily part of your life.
cut the porn, NEVER go on /b/, and focus instead on having sex in real life. i recently developed a black fetish, and its annoying as fuck
100% confident. despite the black fetish i still managed to have sex twice (last night and this morning) with a qt brazilian (light brown, not the basically black kind) 22 year old.
the fetish has slowed down sex with other people, but i think part of that is just getting bored with that partner
have sex. porn/fantasy is not the same as reality.
ion my fantasies im a slutty little bottom boi getting gangbanged by daddies in public.
in real life i dont even like having someone stick a finger up my butt, and much prefer younger qts.
go out and start having sex with people you find yourself attracted to, and see what develops. you might still lean towards assertive women, but not quite femdom. instead of learning what your brain likes, learn what your body likes as well.
I find that sex is far more enjoyable as i learn that there is more to it then just he feelings in the tip of my penis. i also love having my balls rubbed, for instance
>so your advice is to be born attractive
nope. if ur ugly, then my advice is lower your standards. theres always people willing to have sex. games you have to play and hoops you have to jump through.
but if ur not getting laid at all and have no chance to, what does it matter if ur into cuckold and femdom?
i had to quit my porn cuz i was focusing more on porn than having sex. but if ur not having sex offers whats the problem with ur porn?
Plain old Pegasus looks so bare
I'm glad I started using titles
Profitable in that you have money of your own or profitable in that you find meaning in being trash? Either way, I don't believe you are personally "profitable" in any way.
"Summary: Sex is the oldest and most universal of tests. Our ever-changing view of what sex means (performance, masculinity/femininity, intimacy, pleasure) is just the criteria upon which the test is graded. Lack of sexual freedom, impotence, and sexual inhibition is endemic to many cultures, both modern and ancient. It may even be instinctive. Furthermore, our wild, liberated sexual fantasies (and representations in media) are poor representations of sexual reality, yet we still judge our sexual adequacy and self-worth based on fulfilling them. Sex has historically been a ritualized, non-intimate activity, and most people are oblivious of their partners' experience and dishonest about their own anyway."
You can change a replacement for those thing you 'hate' liking. But that's very personal/specific work which you'd have to think over.
I replaced my porn adiction with "cute" and "pastel-colored" imagery (as in with tumblr, facebook, and such).
I'm very, very interested in this question as well. I have a kind of upsetting fetish (not cuckolding, but it's just as icky) that I have absolutely no desire to ever turn into a reality. Right now all I'm getting from it is a hit of self-loathing every time I masturbate and the compulsive need to clear my browser history before I let my girlfriend borrow my laptop. I have zero interest in ever "coming to terms with it" and accepting it as a feature of my personality.
I want it gone.