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I need help, guys. Serious help.
>Meet girl on OKC
>cute lifting chick, my type, attracted to me, tons of flirty messages and snapchats
>only flaw is that we live an hour away and have to commute by bus, so we can only see each other once a week
>first date happens, amazing, tons in common, share a great day, feel perfect holding hands, and have great make out session
>great talking throughout the week, move to phone conversations and Skype
>Second date, even better. Netflix and chill, do more stuff (just short of sex), we go exclusive, and talk about Valentines Day as our time to finally have sex together.
>Monday night, not in the mood to talk.
>She's anxious about school stuff, I help her through it and things are okay.
>Wednesday, we Skype and it's fine. Not great, but fine.
>Thursday, she doesnt respond to my texts much. We talk a little that night, but what was originally high octane romantic emoji action is now much less affectionate. I'm anxious she's losing interest.
>She doesn't want to talk on Friday and says something came up so V-day cancelled. After hours of distant texting I convince her to talk to me on the phone about whats wrong. She says her Mirena IUD is causing real serious anxiety problems and she's been grumpy, moody, and in bed all week. She says she's still interested and here for me but she's putting up a wall and doesn't know what to do. Doing the same to her parents.
>Barely talk Saturday, doesn't respond to my text checking in on her.
>Try to call her today, Valentines Day, to say hi. She picks up and hangs up, we snapchat a couple times, I tell her I want to call tonight, she doesn't respond.
I want to help her through this, but she doesn't open up or communicate anymore and it fucking hurts to show so much affection and get literally nothing back. But if she's really so depressed it's debilitating,I don't want to just abandon her either. I really care about her and this feels like it should have went somewhere great. What do I do?