As a guy who is currently having a hard time dating, who can I talk to about this? I feel like if I open up to somebody about it or try to get help it would only make it worse.
I don't know any single girls. I'm saying, who can I talk to about my worries/frustrations? Or should I not say anything at all?
Also, is it possible to ask someone if they know anyone who's available without seeming desperate. Social retard here.
Eh. So you don't know any single girls... You can come here, or if it depresses you that much, there are crisis hotlines who can counsel you, they will counsel you.
Chat them up first. I hear that's it. You chat them up, and look/listen for signals she likes you. Anything like sweat, saliva, hair motion, everything head to toe is readable like a book. If she likes you, it's on. Ask her out, trade numbers, make the match happen or else or else. Pretend you're not (whatever). If she doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. It happens. If she just isn't into you, it happens.
Where are you meeting them?
Not op. My mother works as a bartender and a lot of women seem to like her. They usually say "that's your mom, I love her!" Should I exploit this? Will this be a good advantage? The people who work at the bar all know and like me.
You should be able to hack that. Getting your authority in as many precincts as possible can only work to your advantage.
The reverse could also happen, however. IF you fuck it up (don't fuck this up) the whole house will come crumbling down on you, someone else can articulate this way better, and you'll get fucked. But you'll probably still get a ton of pussy. This is how it looks as a guy who has never gotten laid at a bar.
maybe not to meet the love of your life (you never know) but at the very least it will get you comfortable talking to girls you've never met before
worst case scenario you're in the same spot, you might get banged or even find your dream girl like I said who knows, regardless you'll be prepared when you finally do run into qt pie girl of your dreams at target
try dancing classes
try spanish classes
mate, you need to drop some shit out of your life to make space for a routine that brings you into contact with lots of different people on the regualr.
now that you prob. don't like that idea, here's a hint: change to mind to like social activities. the decision is simple: what do you WANT more? Stay inside and eat too much or have a nice time with the other gender. decide, then act on it.
find something social that YOU like, that brings you forwad. keep doing it, be happy. Girls can never be the goal. They come and leave like the seasons. It's always about where YOU are and where YOU are going. It both should be admireable and authentic,