Hey /adv/ i'm in a bit of an awkward situation too.
A girl i have been dating for 8 months decided to randomly go on vacation this month and visit her family back in their home country or w/e.
No big deal, that' fine with me.
Today around midnight she texted me this and went offline.
Ahem, what??? should i be worried.
Here's a second pic.
There's a funny story to this whole photo-shoot thing too if you care to find out.
No, I have a stereotypical view of your photographer.
The model will start taking pictures and she'll be shy, timid, nervous, etc. The photographer will start complimenting her, commenting on her, building her up. Now her confidence is gaining and she's moving a little more freely, when your body starts to free up a LOT of tension, stress, etc. is released and she's feeling fantastic. Her ego is being fed, her body is loose, nimble, and free of stress, and her defenses are being broken -- because the photographer and model are establishing a relationship of trust (whether true or not is irrelevant) using compliments, security, and a barrier of whats suppose to be "professionalism."
Now the model is feeling like she's on top of the world, she's feeling sexy, confident, safe, and easy-going. Now the photographer - towards the end of the "shoot" - can start to push a little more: Let's say it's a lingerie shot. In the middle of the shoot, he'll start off by saying, "Alright, now purse your lips and look more sexy and suggestive." The model complies. Ah! Now let's see what else we can do....
"Alright, lean over and stick your butt out."
30 minutes goes by. In the middle of the shoot. The photographer will subtly, efficiently (yet carefully) tell the model to "take of her top." But he'll do so with "implied nudity." This means that while her top is off, she'll be covering her self. He doesn't care...because I can guarantee in the process he'll be seeing those titties.
He'll try to get her to reveal them. Once or if that happens? Who knows. Depending on his linguistic skills, professional "experience", etc. he can get a whole lot more.
It takes two to cheat. What it ultimately comes down to is whether you trust her or not.
If you can't trust her then neither of you deserve to be in that relationship. There are two possibilities.
1. She cheated, in which case you deserve a girl who won't
2. She didn't cheat, in which case she deserves a guy who will trust her
If you do trust her, then don't worry about it. If she got taken advantage of and you trust each other then it's not gonna stay secret forever and you can decide then whether you want to stay with her or not.
It seems ridiculous to assert responsibility on someone who has a reasonable suspicion that she's doing shady stuff.
If he was thinking she might be cheating every time she leaves the house with no signs, then he'd be paranoid, but sending him pics of a random photoshoot when she's supposed to be on family vacation is sketchy.