I'm in a long-distance relationship with an age gap. The longer we've gone out, the tighter the noose has gotten with her parents restricting her from things. We're in love and committed incredibly, and know the risks, but I'm afraid that our relationship has done so much damage. She's essentially a prisoner in her own home. But she loves me so much. It's so dangerous though. If she gets caught, it's a scolding, beating or whatever. But me? If they spin the story in a certain way, police get involved. But I really don't want it to get that ugly.. When we're together and in constant communication, it's amazing. Finishing sentences and stuff. I teach her things, she teaches me things. And we haven't even met in person. But it's gotten so ugly over these past 8 months.. I don't know what to do, so I'm here asking you /adv/.
Tl:dr ; going out with an underage girl. Her parents don't approve, but this girl has happiness with me like no one else in her life. But the noose is getting tighter every time they catch us talking.
first of all, tell us honestly how old are you and how old is she, as it is incredibly relevant in this case because based on this information we can determine what kind of future this relationship has and what to do with problematic parts,
there are many pedos on adv, if you are a newfag just wait and lurk and you'll see yourself. We have even have famous ones like cousin lover or some 17/18 yo kiddie diddler who posts religiously, sometimes twice a day
meh, that's not that horrible, but still; her mentality is one of a child, and your hopefully should be one of an adult. It's no wonder her parents are against it, at that age she's still pretty vulnerable and you as an older guy can easy trick her into sexual relationship and what not. And add to this mix long distance thing... I don't think it's worth it, to be honest, It's not real love since you never spent time together in person. Sure, things may be lovely dovey but it's not a real relationship anyway.
My advice? Break up, move on, find a girl your age.
if that is honestly the age difference then there is nothing wrong. 4 year difference is fuck all. her parents shouldn't even give a shit. women mature faster then guys. you could legally fuck her in some states too.
No I'm not. Our relationship does not revolve around sex. I made that clear from the start. Nothing sexual. I'm not even into young girls. She just happened to be young. But I know at this point, I'm just giving you more fuel to work with.
Why are you obsessing a 16 year old 400 miles away, whom you've never met in person, when there are plenty of legal women at your local college? Something is wrong with you OP and her parents know it
Yeah, anon. I've been thinking of that too. On a couple of occasions, I've brought that up to her. She doesn't think things through like I do. Yeah.. I guess it would probably be for the better since she still has a lot of growing up to do.
I regret us going behind her parents back and them bringing down the hammer on her. She's been through a traumatic childhood. I just came into her life and became a really supportive and thoughtful friend - someone who wouldn't judge her for once. But it's evolved into this, which is been really toxic.
Sorry for the wall of text.
Started on Xbox. We used to get into parties and casually talk about random things like strangers. Then we started talking and comparing our thoughts on things. We both took a chance and opened up ourselves to each other, shared our deepest most intimate thoughts and fears. It's kind of what our relationship was founded on, honesty and stuff. No masking, like we do to everyday people.