I can't even put my finger on why I don't want to be with this girl anymore, but I don't. I still have to see her every day though, so help me out. Everyone thinks we're great for each other, but I'm just not feeling it. I just don't want it to be like
>I'm breaking up with you
And then everyone hates me.
>I spend 3 years on a relationship just because I didn't know how to break up. Almost committed suicide because of this. Don't waste your time with a relationship that will not be good for you, mate.
Break up and say something like - "I'm not ok and i don't know how to describe it, it's not like i'm thinking about anyone else, we should break up, if you love me, you will understand it"..
Something like that....
OP I'm battling with a similar decision. I'm bored with my relationship but I can't articulate any particular problem with my girlfriend that would justify a breakup. Can't tell if I'm bored because I'm easily bored of if I'm bored because she's boring. I'm pretty stuck. I can't advise you but I can lurk the thread.
You aren't fooling anyone. If you aren't feeling her I'm sure she's sensing that and maybe she's not feeling you either. However at the same time I have lost interest in a relationship or two and chose not to act on that loss of interest based on the reason you stated previously, that there was no "reason to end it". In my personal experience I have been fortunate enough to see through those times and stumble repeatedly back into that remarkable place of blissfulness with him again. I wish you the best of luck on your endeavors. :)