I fall in love too easily and worry too much. >I want to

Me too, man. I hate myself and I think too much about everything and I think about suicide so often I'm not sure anymore whether it's just habit or they're genuine thoughts.

But yeah. Life is shitty and I'm not sure I've ever been in love.

Is there some specific thing you want advice on, or are you looking for 2/3 replies encouraging you to get help and 1/3 telling you to do it?

>>16801090
Do what? I'm not wanting to off myself, I just need help getting off the rollercoaster.
i.e., How do I stop falling in love so easily and worrying so much?

>>16801150

Stop drinking coffee. caffeine fuels anxiety.

>>16801230
I don't even drink coffee. Only tea, though, granted, it's about 3/4 cups a day.

>>16799980

So, I would like to ask, how old are you?

>>16801378
20, and yes I'm emotionally stunted.

>>16799980
Only thing I can suggest is have some grounding things in your life that are just about you, like a sport or hobby. It's helped me to just have at least one rewarding thing to focus my energy on. I know it sucks though, I'm also very passionate and romantic towards guys right off the bat and it tends to freak them out.

>>>/r9k/

>>16799980
>I fall in love too easily
lolno. You're just a wimp who thinks his hard on and desire to serve (which all wimps want to do for anyone they meet, out of insecurity) is love.

Love isn't and doesn't work like that at all.

>>16801492
do you really think following a hobby or passion will let those worrying thoughts vanish?

>>16801793
That's... no.
You're making a ton of assumptions.
I've actually spent a fair amount of time with this girl and I legitimately enjoy her as a person, not in terms of hard-ons and servitude. I just feel it's probably a little early to feel as strongly as I do. I've been there before and I fucked up because of it.
No one cares about your alpha persona

>>16801492
That's a good idea, I'll try to find some hobbies to occupy myself and my mind. I don't think I've freaked her out, since she still actively chooses to spend time with me, but my mind goes to crazy places sometimes.
In fact it turns out I actually had nothing to worry about afterall, it was all my imagination causing me anxiety.

>>16801495
I don't think I'm quite that bad yet.
>a-am I?

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I do too OP, I do too.

But like they say, the ride never ends...

Here's a pic of what she kinda looks like.

>>16801822
Oh god no, the anxiety never goes away. But it makes it way more manageable if you have distractions, at least in my experience.

>>16802149
Brains can be assholes. You'll be okay, anon.

>>16803008
It seems so. I can't help but jump to the worst conclusion if there's any evidence at all to support it.
I'm gonna git rid of my brain, I've just decided.

>>16802783
We're on this ride together anon. Anything you want to talk about? I'll help if I can.