Teach me to hate my ex gf

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Teach me to hate my ex gf 2016-02-12 15:48:08 Post No. 16798767
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Teach me to hate my ex gf Anonymous 2016-02-12 15:48:08 Post No. 16798767 [Report]

So I was together a girl for 7 years (20-27). she moved out for work, cheated (pretty sure about it) and dumped my sorry ass. After that I went on a negative spiral hating myself and skipping med school exams.

So I would have already enough reasons to hat her, right? wrong. I've stumbled upon a recent picture of her and I fucking love how she looks. Also I still do not despise her as a person. It hurts a lot and makes me miserable.

I feel like I need to hate her so I can move on a little. I found another gf recently but things are going into shit because we are not that compatible after all. And I hate the fact that I still compare this girl to my ex (which I honestly liked more)

Please teach me how can I really start hating her with my whole heart. 18 months since she dumped me and I'm still not over it.

Anonymous 2016-02-12 15:53:54 Post No.16798781
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 15:53:54 Post No.16798781 [Report]

Hating her is going backwards.

If you hate someone, you still care about them.

You need to stop caring about her.

Anonymous 2016-02-12 15:59:55 Post No.16798800
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 15:59:55 Post No.16798800 [Report]

>>16798781
>>16798781
I have been no contact 16 months, and I have no intentions of breaking it. I know that ship is sailed. But somehow I still take the blame for almost all and I think I'm the one who burned a good thing down.

Keep in mind she had a strong family desire and I was just lazying out of med school. She dumped me and then immediately dated/fucked some 45 yo coworker. I feel like I blew it and almost forced her to do this.

Anonymous 2016-02-12 19:21:30 Post No.16799292
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 19:21:30 Post No.16799292 [Report]

>>16798800
> I feel like I blew it and almost forced her to do this.

Just fucking drop it. Maybe you were a massive douche or maybe she was never worth a damn and jumped ship as soon as things got stale and a fresh dick showed up.

Move on. Improve if you think you need to, but don't torture yourself.

Anonymous 2016-02-12 19:29:07 Post No.16799307
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 19:29:07 Post No.16799307 [Report]

>>16798781
this

Anonymous 2016-02-12 19:34:41 Post No.16799320
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 19:34:41 Post No.16799320 [Report]

>>16799292
It's hard to move on when you have so little going on in your life. after almost 12 months since the breakup I found another girl who seems to love me, and I played along with it, but in reality I feel like 1/10 of the emotional commitment I had with my ex. At this point I don't know if I'm scarred for life and a little jumpy on relations or just found the wrong girl. And in the meanwhile I torture myself with remorse

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