Is jealousy ever appealing on a guy?
I like a girl, we went out a few times, have a great connection (ticks all the boxes) but I found out only recently she has a boyfriend (i think) and I'm quite disappointed....
No jealously makes you look like a douche no matter what. Jealousy at its core makes people want to control their partner motel and if anything she is probably seeking freedom if she already has a boyfriend.
OP here - maybe I am confusing jealousy with disappointment (probably perceived as jealousy by her)?
But how can I be the same with her after this found knowledge? Who would continue the relationship the same way after you find out she is taken? - A fool?