I love 2 boys and they mean the absolute world to me. One boy I've been with for a couple of years but is jealous and doesn't really give me the freedom I want, but always tells me I can do whatever I want. Another boy comes into my life and isn't jealous and lets me do what I want. Well, I date both boys and it's fine but then I start to feel torn and I feel like I have to love one more than the other and the jealous bf gets upset at me and threatens to breakup with me because I love the other boy too. I break up with the other boy who isn't jealous but keep him by my side and we still act lovey but I'm afraid to date him again. Did I do the wrong thing?
You shouldn't have dated the other guy in the first place, that's cheating. Jealousy is healthy in a relationship, not trying to sound mean here but, if you were dating 2 guys at the same time... Then the first guy had legit reasons to act the way he did.
The one guy I was with for a couple of years just got boring and our relationship was dying. This new guy was so refreshing and he is so sweet, he is sticky at times and has issues, but I still love him
sounds like you're immature and reply on relationships too much for excitement in your life. if you truly love someone then developing and growing as a person while being with them should make you happy. you dont just move on to the next guy as soon as things get a bit stale. you work on things. sounds like you dont love either of them anyway. you are infatuated. why the fuck are all the womens issues on /adv/ always so drama orientated?
Bear in mind that the excitement of having two competing guys is overwhelming for many of the values women have and also bear in mind that neither will enjoy your company in the long term because of the torture in this early part of your relationship. They will always see you as cruel.
In many ways you will see yourself as cruel too which will munch away at your soul like an old twix leaving you as an empty husk.
Concentrate on work/ sports/friends buddy.. That is where male life is.
Women have other purposes and can be great but a fox is a fox and if its giving you a lift over a river.. You know what comes next.