Alright /adv/, I kinda wanna know what this girls deal is.

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2016-02-12 11:35:08 Post No. 16798267
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 11:35:08 Post No. 16798267 [Report]

Alright /adv/,

I kinda wanna know what this girls deal is.

So me and my ex gf where together for little over a year, we hit it off pretty good and we loved eachother a lot. Things began going downhill and she ended up breaking up with me. This was 5 months ago.

In these five months post-breakup, we have had sex multiple times and she even considered getting back together with me. One day i told her i had enough and i didn't wanted to wait for her anymore. I deleted her on facebook(i know, i know) for my own healing purposes.

When she found out, she was furious. Calling me immature and then told me never to contact her again. I said okay, and kept on doing my thing.

Skip forward a week after the "fight", she texted me asking how i was doing, and initially apoligized to me. She said she was sorry for being such a bitch. Btw, my mom just got cancer, so she said to me she is very sorry for me. She even requested to come pick me up so i could sleep at her place, so i didn't feel alone(Like wtf?) She also mentions that she wants to come to my apartment to talk to me whenever i feel like . She even said that her parents would gladly have me over for dinner some day.

I politely thanked no, because she cant have me around her little finger like that.

Whats her deal?

Anonymous 2016-02-12 12:04:47 Post No.16798306
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 12:04:47 Post No.16798306 [Report]

>>16798267
Just like you said, she wants you wrapped around her finger... until something better comes along. For now, you're just someone from the past she can emotionally cling too.

But the real question is what do you want from this OP?

Anonymous 2016-02-12 12:06:08 Post No.16798307
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 12:06:08 Post No.16798307 [Report]

>>16798306
This. She is keeping you as a back up plan. >>16798306

Anonymous 2016-02-12 12:10:14 Post No.16798314
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 12:10:14 Post No.16798314 [Report]

>>16798267
Girls like having power. You took hers away.

Anonymous 2016-02-12 13:24:14 Post No.16798439
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 13:24:14 Post No.16798439 [Report]

>>16798306

Honestly, i would love to get her back.
At the same time, i want her back for the right reasons, how do i proceed doing this?

Anonymous 2016-02-12 13:27:42 Post No.16798446
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Anonymous 2016-02-12 13:27:42 Post No.16798446 [Report]

>>16798439
If you want her for the right reasons, you can't come here poisoning your own ears with bullshit advice from people who don't know her and who don't know your relationship dynamic.

You have to be honest. She has to be honest. Be forthright on what you want out of her and that you want her to agree to those conditions. See what conditions she sets out in turn. THEN consider whether given those conditions, these are the "right reason" for yourself and for her.

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