I've become obsessed with finding a girl to have casual sex with.
I have a gf of four years, and we're going through a rough patch of no sex.
Things are good, she's just really busy with work and school and only wants to cuddle when we hang out. She said she wants to have sex on Valentine's day.
I've been messaging girls on hookup sites and tinder and I found a few girls who want to meet up. I really want to meet with them and have sex so I could get rid of this burden of extreme sexual energy.
Fapping just makes it worse the next day.
What do I do? Should I just try to ignore this urge and fight on, or meet a girl to fuck to get it out of my system?
Do you see yourself spending the rest of your life with your current girlfriend? If the answer is yes, WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU EVEN CONSIDER SLEEPING AROUND? Like damn dude maybe try and get a bit more kinky with her or something first. No don't go off fucking everything in a 2 mile radius. You'll start to miss that cuddling, caring affection.
If you don't see a future with her, break up with her, wait a week or so, and then fuck whatever the hell you want.
Dude, Valentines Day is 2 days away. Have sex with your girlfriend, then the day after, talk to her about the recent lack of sex in the relationship.
Never a good idea to fuck around. Unless you are ready for your current relationship to be over completely. In which case, break it off ***before*** you go fuck someone else. Don't be an asshole.
you already kinda cheated by writing to other girls, i'm pretty sure if your gf finds out that when she doesn't sex you up at least once a week you'll be ready to find someone to cheat with she'll leave your sorry ass.
i'm in a 3 year relationship and for the past almost 8 months me and my bf haven't had sex, because i suffer from tensions in my vag so i'm not allowed to have sex.
he hasn't cheated on me and he is most likely not going to, i of course do other stuff to make him happy because of the no sex but we took a long talk about it in the beginning because i just lost all kind of sex drive.
you should also talk about it with her instead of cheating, which you kinda already have, by writing other girls and suggesting sex.
If you're not bloody satisfied with the relationship BOTH emotionally and physically, talk to your partner about it and attempt to find a resolution, if it can't be fixed, then break up. Don't be a cunt and cheat on her.