I would like to date a fun, attractive guy who has a lot of cool hobbies. However, it is extremely difficult to find a good match. The current pool I am in is not good-- it's mostly studious Asian people who I am NOT interested in.
Where can I find a fun guy to date?.... I just want to genuinely enjoy my life, and have a break from this boring life of studying in the library.
I am Caucasian, and would like to date someone decent in my own race. I feel like I am deprived of attention and affection right now, and it's a bit hard to deal with especially on valentine's day.
/sigh... /adv/, how do you cope with not being with your ideal partner?...
start making friends and having a social life. you'll meet people.
alternatively just do the online dating thing. if you're a white girl who is at least 6/10 there will be hordes of men tripping over themselves to date you
>where can i find a fun guy to date
the thing about a good match is that they arent exactly waiting around. they just live their lives. you find them by going out and meeting anyone and everyone.
>i just want to genuinely enjoy my life
a boy cant fix that for ya, so i wouldnt bother trying. the fact that you are putting so much focus on this is probably why you wont find a guy. guys may be more desperate than their female counterparts but NO ONE wants to just be the ANYONE that fills a void. they want complete people. if you arent enjoying your life, why would he or anyone want to hang out wiht you?
>i feel like i am deprived of attention and affection right now
really going downhill here
>how do you cope with not being wiht your ideal partner
by being my ideal partner. i build my life to be happy, fun and fulfilling on its own. i dont sit around and hope someone else will make it good for me. when i meet cool guys, its a fucking blast. its great. but my life is just as fun on my own.
your standards of too high. you want too many things. in reality you will be lucky to find someone who is attractive and fun, not someone who is fun, attractive and has lots of cool hobbies. plus, how do you define a fun guy? if he as lots of cool hobbies he probably will be too busy with them too bother with you.
Have you tried slowly licking your lips while making steady eye contact with desire able white guys? That usually works on me and I Am white, play chess, skydive, smoke a pipe, read the Wall Street Journal, and am a multi-millionaire dot come entrepreneur.