Hey, I'm not sure if this is the right thread or board for this, but I am a lesbian who's been invited by a girl I met to a threesome with her boyfriend.
Now I am a little bi-curious, though I haven't been with a guy before. Is there anthing I should know, other then don't get knocked up? Like how would I please a guy?
We are going to do petplay mostly and both me and her are subs.
(Reposted from a diferent thread, thought I could make it it's own thing.)
There's a very good chance that you'd please him most indirectly by focusing intimacy on the girl. That's not to say you can't experiment with him too. Just don't worry yourself too much about that. You being there is already plenty. Run with what he says and you're golden. If you're still concerned, expressing positive feedback to the things he does which are enjoyable for you (either pleasantly stimulating or related to your curiosities) will help him get the most out of the experience. Most guys I know, along with myself, thrive on the pleasure of our partners. It makes us feel proud.
In a threesome it's very important that you have a serious and mature discussion in advance about how you want the threesome to proceed. I know that being "spontaneous" has a certain appeal but communication is a lot more important. You need to communicate what you are comfortable with, otherwise you will experience random things and you can be randomly hurt. You should know that it's perfectly okay if you want to make conditions about the experience. Example:
"Fucking is ok but not kissing"
"I want to fuck the girl while you watch"
"I don't want pictures / I want pictures"
"I would prefer to not be in contact with cum"
"I don't want others to know / it's fine to tell close friends"
"I don't want anal / I want anal"
"I would like to use a safe word"
"I want to know if it's okay to bring my sex toys or if it's okay to use my sex toys on other people"
"I am not comfortable with penises and I may not do penetrations"
"I don't know if I like guys yet so I don't want to be kissed by the man unless I initiate it"
"I like the girl more than the guy and therefore I may spent more time with the girl and I want to make sure you are okay with that"
"I am still not sure about the whole thing I hope it's okay if I can take a break if I ever start to feel anxious"
Remember that you are doing this for fun. You don't need to make a long list or write a contract, but if there is one thing in particular that is lingering on your mind then talk about it. Don't be afraid to speak your mind if you start to feel pressure.
Hey /adv/ can you fuck off with this, it's like taking a shit on any non-bait post you read because you don't like it. Even if it is a troll, do you think somehow you win for calling it out? Unnecessary and annoying.