I'm taking a class that's going to end soon. There's a girl in the class I just want to get to know better. I want to ask her for her phone number but I'm so fucking shy and bashful my stomach gets tied in knots just thinking about asking her, Is too much of a dorky move to write her a note? I wouldn't ask this if she was a regular girl but she has this naive quality is a complete nerd.
Try to talk about something in the class, just strike up the conversation, then with something like "what's your number, so we could discuss it later?"
Or ask for Facebook, it is easier to type than to talk.
>Is it too much of a dorky move to write her a note?
Yes it is and that's a pretty terrible idea.
Just ask her for her number one day. If she asks why, just tell her that you like talking to her and you two won't see each other in class anymore soon.
For every fear you face in life, calmly rationalise it. Any irrational fear you encounter needs to be faced and defeated. The sensation will only be momentary. A missed opportunity can last much longer
This may not seem helpful, but just talk to her. And try to smile