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Can't feel anything during sex
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So what does sex actually feel like to you guys? Is it good? Do you enjoy it? Obviously you do, or otherwise you probably wouldn't do it. Which is exactly my problem: I don't feel anything during sex. It doesn't feel good, it doesn't feel bad, there's just nothing. I get absolutely nothing out of it, which leads to me becoming limp after a few minutes and that's that.

My dick is working fine, as far as I can tell. Masturbation works just fine. I can make it quick or draw it out, it feels good and it makes me horny. Everything my girlfriend does to me, however, doesn't do anything. Blowjobs are like a weird, barely palpable sensation; if I closed my eyes, I couldn't even tell if she's just using the tip of her tongue or has it in her mouth. The same happens during sex, no matter if I use a condom or not. If I don't see what's going on, I can't even tell whether I'm inside her or not. I used viagra once and that worked, allowed me to make her cum, but I myself got nothing out of it.

It's not my girlfriend. I love her, she's very good looking and foreplay always gets me hot. Once I have to actually use my dick, though, it all falls apart because I just get nothing out of it and lose my erection.

It's difficult for both of us. We've been together for three years now and she has been incredibly patient with me, though I fear that at some point kinky sex games and my tongue are just not going to be enough anymore and eventually break our relationship. Not to mention that I really would like to have sex at this point. I suppose I'm still technically a virgin since I never came during sex and my girlfriend is the only girl I ever tried to have sex with.

So this is weird, right? This is not something every guy struggles with?
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>>16795543

This is pretty weird, honestly. I'd look for a doctor to talk about it. I've been pretty numb due to being drunk AND using a thick condom before, but nothing quite like this.
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>>16795543
Are you cut or uncut?
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>>16795543

sounds like you got whats called 'death grip'. basically you masturbated a little to strongly with a firm grip and now your cock is de sensitized. it needs that strong fucking grip to feel anything. even fresh vaginas can feel too soft or lose. i always thoguht id have this problem but never have.

i am desensitized to oral like you are (at least when im hard, but if they staart when im soft i feel that) but i can still fuck no problem
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Stop masterbating and start exercising. Do this for atleast a month.
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>>16795562
Yeah, I figured I would have to do that at some point.
>>16795569
I'm uncut.
>>16795573
Mh, that might be true, because I've been known to tug on myself really hard when I'm at it. So what do I do? Not touch myself for months?
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>>16795580
>uncut.
Then its curable.
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>>16795580

im not sure. that might be the answer. googling death grip might give some results. no promises
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>>16795592
I've actually found that term while googling a few weeks ago, I wasn't sure whether it's a real thing, though. I suppose not masturbating might be a good try and a potential solution, but I find it very hard to not do it.
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>>16795598

very hard. but its spiritually fulfilling when you push back the urge. talk to your gf about it, three years in shes aware there is an issue and just ask her to be your keeper. i mean if ur horny enough to fap, ur horny enough to at least try and fuck. never end with jerking though
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>>16795605
Thanks, it seems that really is all I can do at the moment. I suppose I already kinda knew it was going that way, but needed someone to tell me so. Gonna be an interesting month.
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>>16795619


good luck mate
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>>16795543
I also feel almost nothing when I use a condom. If your girlfriend and you are not infected, you should try pull out method.
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>>16795708

>should try pull out method

JUST GET BIRTH CONTROL PILLS YOU FUCKING RETARD.
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