Dear /adv/, can you share any tips on how to transform from a frowny paranoid nerd girl to something dateable?
Not fat, average looks, zero experience in relationships (not counting crushing on a best friend for 7 years and acting like a childish bitch)
So how do guys make a decision to ask a girl out?
Well, I like how I look and can be attractive with some effort. I am more insecure with my personality, like being indifferent and self-reliant, never asking for help. It must be bad things.
then it sounds like you already know what you want. you asked us how to transform you, you refuse to show us what you look like, and already are aware of what you need to fix otherwise.
so good luck with that
If you want a guy to ask you out you look at him dead in the eyes for like 3 seconds. Do this like a few times spaced out, not like stare at him, but be casually glancing around and make eye contact and hold it a little longer than usual.
Maybe he will start a conversation and you can go from there.
That sounds stupid but it's simple and works. Most guys aren't just going to randomly walk up to a girl with no signs, because it's extremely easy to be rejected for them. So you drop little signs and he either picks them up or he doesn't and you move on. Maybe go on a date, but it's just a date, don't put too much into it early on. Go on dates with a few different guys and find one you like the most.
Depends. What do you want from the guy?
Some fuk? Dress provocatively, tease them and look at them in a longing way.
Long term relationship?
Befriend them first. Be casual, build it up gradually and behave like wife material.
What's wife material?
Being kind, caring, compassionate, prioritizing him, having a healthy self respect and confidence, being accepting of him and what he does for you, not trying to beat him at his own game, and being petty but modest. Be like this and guys will kill for you. They will literally think you are the chance of their lifetime.
In the previous post it's pretty not petty, auto correct is just messing with me.
Minimalist makeup, girly clothes. Have an image that you pay attention to yourself but don't overdo it. Your image shouldn't be a product or some art.