So I (f) am gonna tell my friend (m) on V Day that I love him and wanna be his gf
I told him that 2 yrs ago but he wasn't into me back then so I'm trying again
Guys what's the best thing I can do to succeed???
I wish you good luck anyway BUT just a few things.
Unless the guy is shy or insecure 90% of the time he would have already tried an approach with you. Trust me, men are not as complicated as women.
as a guy i was always impressed by strong women and i have a lot of friends who have the same opinion. if you tell him you're a carpenter, he'll instantly like you. carpentering woman are alwyas appreciated by men.
You waited two years for him?
This is a serious case of oneitis. He knows he has you around his finger and can do whatever he wants to do. You will only hurt yourself.
Is he an insecure guy?
Yeah its this.
Start fitness. Do anything. Getting started is what matters.
Men find fatties unattractive not just physically. It signifies a lack of willpower and health. You're not even on the radar.
>the pic doesn't even have homotopy type theory
>doesn't even know that it is currently the most powerful tools in mathematics, which is now considered as its new foundation
>doesn't know that new areas of math, completely unknown before, are emerging from this theory
No, I think carpentry is a better choice in your case as well.
I posted some long time ago and people here said that I'm cute and just a bit fat
But I know I'm very fat and mildly cute so whatever
Cause I eat compulsively and am lazy, I'm trying to change it (doing nordic walking eating less etc) but I'm still fat so yeah. I have also some thyroid problems but am too lazy to sort it out and don't wanna take meds till I die so it's whatever
I'm too stupid for advanced math but as far carpentry goes I'll refurbish some 1910s vintage night table so wish me luck lol
Now you know what's really unattractive in fat girls. Lack of willpower. Grow some self esteem, learn to respect yourself, have some goals and pursue them. Without willpower you are just shaped like your surrounding shallow you until you die. Be a person, have a will. Shine and be attractive and full of life.
Always make some program and a goal for yourself and pursue it.
Post pic, that was a long time ago..
How old are you?
Your advice is good and I appreciate it I'm trying to change my habits but it isnt easy and takes time to show effects
I just mainly wanna know how to approach my friend and told him I'm into him in most effective and noncreepy way in the meantime
no, he's incredibly enigmatic and easy going. His mental issues don't show so unless you know him v well you wouldn't know. He's like very social too and knowledgeable and has nice voice and thus girls drop their panties
What's with the carpentry meme? I'm seeing this shit everywhere like carpentry will get you 6 figures and a 10/10 bf/gf. Most carpenters I know are missing teeth and drink alone every night.
He sounds like a manslut who found his niche. If he gets a lot of female attention, you need to be better than them to have a chance dpi stay working out and resolving your issues.
To reiterate, you aren't even on the damned radar and how you feel doesn't matter.
Exercise, count calories and prove to him you're doing it. Get him to do it with you for fucks sake. Say you want help.
If you don't take drastic action right now, he could run off with the first demonstrably good woman he meets.
Then he's gay. No way a guy who is swimming in female attention refuses to have sex it a relationship. And if he does, you don't really have much chance unless you work on yourself.
Keep doing it and be patient.
You can't change his perception of you until you have visible progress on your appearace, and more importantly your personality.
V day is a stupid card selling holiday anyway.
Heterosexual men who are bathing in female attention are not virgins. They are only virgins if they lack female attention.
Why would he lurk now?
Post pic then delete it or I give you a throwaway email and send it there
Not exactly, i'm kinda like op friend, average, but somehow i get a lot of attention from girls due to mysterious personality and good small talk, the reason i don't go for it its because i'm extremely insecure and the fear of getting intimate, most of my friends thinks i'm gay because of it.
you can give me an email but I don't know what my pic will change lol
Also I don't know, don't think he's gay because he doesn't do anything with guys either so maybe he's asexual who know
Why wouldn't he lurk now? I mean maybe he's not but just in case he is lol. I don't want restraining order from him honestly
yeah I figured he's scared of intimacy too
you're prolly right
I don't know why I ever bother asking for advice desu cause all people say is to change myself but what in a meantime? I just want to make a move and get over it eh
Go for it fatty friend, nothing to lose anyway.
>I just want to make a move and get over it eh
this, but i hope you do get your motivation to lose weight someday.
>what is the least autistic way to do it tho?
say that you might suck his dick every single day, not even joking tho.