I made out on new year's Eve with a girl from my hometown, which is about 3 hours away by car. I usually visit my parents there once a month. I'm going today again and most likely meet up with this girl on the weekend. I'm not sure if I want a relationship with her, and most importantly I don't want a long distance relationship. Should I still fuck her to at least lose my virginity (I'm 20)?
Since any relationship with this girl is going to have to be long distance, you basically don't want a relationship with her.
I would talk to her about expectations if you fuck her. If it's just for fun, great. If she thinks this is leading to a relationship, you shouldn't be fucking with her.
Or I guess it depends on how desperate you are to not be a virgin vs being willing to be a shitty person.